The importance of treating your True Emotion Mirror a little rough

True Emotion Mirrors kind of love the challenge they pose for each other. HOWEVER, you might want to keep your finger on the pulse a little, as to whether you are being TOO rough. There is an argument to be made tho, that the True Emotion Mirror instinctively trains their counterpart to take whatever is needed without fearing the relationship is in danger, or that they are not loved, but this can also come from a narcissistic place, so you might watch your step here. (If you NEVER consider who might NOT love you even though you love them, you MIGHT be barking at a tree that doesn’t actually give a fuck whether you come or go, but be rooted to the place for the virtue of being, well, a tree and thus unable to get the fuck away from you. So before you get all excited about the durability of your relationship, consider whether that person has a REALISTIC option to actually leave you or not.)

Your True Emotion Mirror thinks you’re a god/goddess

The problem here is, that your True Emotion Mirror, if you’ve got the right person, thinks you’re akin to a god or a goddess. Therefore, they will be bewildered as to what it is that you see in them if you act too EASY TO GET. They feel like you must not know to whom you speak to, and they think along the lines of “somebody must have told you I’m rich or something…” Your TrEmoR don’t necessarily understand that you’ve already wooshed through their brain and practically downloaded your mutual reincarnational history from your mutual memory bank and know exactly who they are and what they are to you. They may still think of you from the REAL WORLD perspective while you’re seeing them from the spirit realm.

Therefore, they may feel more normal and balanced about it if you test them a little and make them jump a hoop or two for you.

Your “stuckness” may come from your True Emotion Mirrors

Your True Emotion Mirrors maybe quite tough on you, and vice versa – and you should be. You want nothing more than each other’s happiness, and that may sometimes mean treating you rough. They may FORCE you to work hard on something important to you without a break (look at me going) or force you to learn to perhaps stand up for yourself or find independence or you name it. There can also be other people in this mixture, but it is more than likely going to turn out to be a good thing, as every challenge has its spiritual reward. You cannot have an ordeal that doesn’t make you wiser for the future.

A karmic soulmate may be in a mix like this, too, as they will put a stop to your mutual wish to get together prematurely – the karmic soulmate may ensure this won’t happen.

Once you’ve cleared the hurdles between yourself and your eternal bliss – or whatever – you’ll move forward.

You see the potential in them that they may be denying

One of the most annoying things about your True Emotion Mirror is that they may sell themselves short and not be proud enough of themselves for your liking… Or they may see their potential while they don’t. When you feel like holding your True Emotion Mirror to a standard but feel coy about it, they’ll probably feel good about it, rather than dwarfed by it. You CAN ask quite a lot from your True Emotion Mirror, and if it is in their power, they’ll make it happen…

(And if they can’t or won’t, the chances are they are not actually YOUR TrEmoR at all. Either they can’t live up to your expectations because they’re not as talented as you think, or they could but won’t feel inspired to, because they don’t want to do this FOR YOU, while they’d do it for someone else. Also, if a person isn’t your True Emotion Mirror, their IDEAL version of themselves is different from yours, so they’ll refuse to fulfill the potential that might be real, but they just don’t want to use it for THE PURPOSE YOU think is right for them.)

If you feel judgmental of or angry at your True Emotion Mirror, study the origin of the feeling

True Emotion Mirrors have quite a sixth sense about each other. When you feel judgmental or angry at your True Emotion Mirror for no clear reason, do study the origin of your feeling. It may not be what you think it is, but it will be important to figure out what it is. Even if you have to start a fight with them sometimes just to get to the root of your feelings – although I am not entirely sold on the fight approaches myself, they do help a lot of people to express themselves better. (I write, other people argue to get to their feelings.)

You are also permitted to lash out at the parents of your True Emotion Mirror

The True Emotion Mirror relationship is the most threatening one of all types to your parents, particularly the parents of the female – no matter how old she may be. This is because this connection is highly sexual, but also, it is COMPLETE, and it means that the child is about to FULLY leave his or her birth family and UNITE with her True Emotion Mirror.

This, to the family, can be tough medicine to swallow. They don’t necessarily feel they are GAINING a son or daughter-in-law, but truly losing a child, and I cannot truly console them. The True Emotion Mirror is so full-bodied that it makes men out of boys and women out of girls, and there is truly not much space left for playing house with mommy and daddy. So the parents MUST either accept their child as a GROWN-UP or lose them completely, this is not a popularity contest they are poised to win… Nor should they try to.

If you feel like lashing out at his or her parents to make them back off your turf, it may be well in order for you to do so… Let alone defending your TrEmoR from the intrusions and disrespect by YOUR parents, which is something you might need to be doing, too.

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