The oppression on male sexuality by female sex coalition

There is more than one way the male sexuality is being oppressed in our societies these days, but this comes in the form of having women essentially silently agree on what is OK for another woman to agree to in bed and what is not that creates oppression on male sexuality. Interestingly enough, this, of course, leads to the oppression of female sexuality as well, but what is the curious point here is that it is women who make and enforce these rules, not men. I cannot imagine a man saying to another: “Hey, man, you’re not giving her cunnilingus, are you..?!” with the tone “oh you idiot, she’s got you under her thumb, hasn’t she?!” but women could easily gather around a TV conversation panel stating with an assertive nods all around: “Girls, you do not have to give him head if you do not want to…” with the underlying tone stating that if you do, you are either a slut or a doormat, and no self-respecting woman would ever suck cock to save her life.

Women can, obviously, go against this current if they want to take the risk of being labelled as sluts by their fellow females, and can loosen the unwritten rulebook for her partner. What would be even better in the eyes of the collective female would be to even demand more tricks under the clause in that rule book that say that humiliating your male partner and making him feel like a lousy lover for failing to fulfil his woman’s needs is more than agreeable by the female coalition standpoint and can be used freely.  Oppression on male sexuality doesn’t happen on legal level in the official attitudes of society, it happens in the background, in general, attitudes and out in the open discussions everywhere you turn: A man is a sexual servant to a woman, he has no rights, only responsibilities.

A man has no real, socially accepted right to wish for a sexually fulfilling relationship, end a sexually unfulfilling relationship or reject a woman based on his wishes for a sexual partner. A woman does.

Women who emphasise their own sexuality maybe subconsciously fighting the effects of oppression on male sexuality

As feminism rages on with the emphasis on sexual attention being diverted away from women and their erotic body parts, some women are getting louder and louder about their own sexuality and also emphasising this by sexually provocative clothing and plastic surgery. Why? Because not all women want to be without sexual attention! The difficulty lies in the attitudes of other women, however, because although most women do want sexual attention from men, they fear that accepting it would go against “the female front” and they suffer from an emotional backlash going from the need of sexual attention to being ashamed of wanting it and guilt for deliberately arousing it. If a woman who is after sexual attention then, without question or objection accept sexual compliments and advances, she maybe seen as the weak link that needs to be shunned from the female unity. She may also feel guilty for “playing dirty” against other women; using her sexuality to gain attention from men – and women who are naturally polygynous will be completely emotionally conflicted about the need to attract male attention while still maintain her position among females. Polyandrous women suffer from this conflict a lot less.

However, the point being, that as men are required to express their sexual interest towards a woman (let alone act on it), women who need sexual attention need to dress more and more provocatively to signal to the guys that she is actually available and accepting of sexual advances. The less men can express their sexuality, the more she needs to shout it out: “You can trust me to not be offended!”

Oppression on male sexuality assumes men are horny dogs if they show (sexual) interest toward a female

The attitude that still surrounds men and their sexuality is the assumption that men will fuck anything that moves while women are looking for true love to share their delicate sexuality with. The attitude reaches into the romantic relationships of a man, too, where he, again, has to put aside his own needs and wishes in favour of the needs and wishes of his female partner. It is generally accepted that men cannot voice out their own feelings on either the matters of love nor sexuality, and everything that goes beyond the strict sexual stereotypes the society believes in can be disregarded; if he says something that doesn’t fit into the idea women have on men, he can be taken for a liar or the wild exception to the rule, an exception that can be disregarded as a real sample of a male.

It is extremely difficult for a man to express his natural sexual behaviour, and as such, this applies to women, too, we are socially banned from behaving in a sexually authentic manner in modern society. All of this stems from the idea that women are pure and men are dirty, male sexuality is dirty and female sexuality is beautiful and sacred. The other side of the coin to oppression on male sexuality is of course, the oppression on female sexuality as well – not all women are alike and not all men are alike, and if one type of sexuality is essentially banned, people of both genders, who enjoy that type of sexuality, get oppressed. There is always a counterpart to all types of sexual fetishists, male and female, and if a man isn’t allowed to express his fetishes in any way but in code language, women too, will suffer as a result. Of course I have to put that in, because all social issues to be taken seriously these days have to be about women or children, even animals, but male issues are really nothing to be concerned about if it doesn’t affect women or children – right?

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