The perquisite of success: friends or family (soulmates) who understand you.

No matter how much you’re loved, you won’t be a success until you are understood first and loved second. If the people in your life don’t understand you, you might as well surround yourself with enemies… You’d be better off making enemies than being loved by people who don’t understand you. Enemies KNOW deep down that they shouldn’t mess with you because they’re no good for you. They know they’re not doing the right thing by you. But people who love you, they can fuck you over so royally thinking they’re doing you a favor, that you will find your life a thousand times harder than what it should be.

The more the people around you think they love you and that they’re helping, the more dangerous being misunderstood by them is. This is a perfect example of “road to hell is paved with good intentions”, and that road may be lovingly paved by your own parents, golden brick by brick.

What to do?

You will need people around you who understand you without a terrible amount of explanations. They should have an instinctive idea what you speak off, but if you go into detail, they get more and more excited about what you are doing, not just for you but for themselves as well. They must be people who want you to succeed not despite their feelings but for their feelings. That’s when they put their energy behind your success when your success means their happiness manifested.

Starting from scratch

Hopefully, you have more than one friend who genuinely understands you. If you have one, that is great… If you have none, I hope you have very few people who love you, too. For every person who loves you without understanding you, you’ll need to find a person who understands you and loves you, or at least wants to see you succeed for whatever reason.

Use Facebook (or future equivalent)

Create a list of friends who you know understand you. Even if it’s one person, you’ll double your manifestation power. When you’re starting out, explain your plan to ONE PERSON who you know will want you to succeed, for THEIR GOOD or for your good, but ideally, for your mutual benefit, or for a common cause you both fully agree on.

First, create content that these people will understand, little by little, and share it with nobody but them with the limited audience function. Clue them in on what you’re trying to achieve. Make sure they understand your meaning and your message well. When you either hear them get actively behind you, start a Facebook group, and ask them to invite people they know to be more than likely sympathetic toward your cause into it.

Keep SOMEONE fully aware of your situation

You may have only one or two people who you feel you can FULLY trust with your plan, especially if it is ambitious, dangerous, or “crazy”. Cue these people in. Be 100% honest with them. (If you’re anything like me, you’ve been editing yourself with almost everyone.) The more people like this you can garner up, the better, but don’t find “Make do” people, share ONLY with people who you FULLY trust to understand your meaning correctly.

Then, when you feel safe to do so, expand.

Expand again until you’ve got momentum on your side.

The fewer people you know that you can trust to understand you, the smaller your start audience should be.

Don’t trust that volume will make your message stronger. Think of every person as a potential rock on your leg trying to sink you, or wings that will make you fly. The more controversial your message (and do use this info responsibly, as if that would make a difference,) the more rocks you will attach to yourself by going for a large initial audience. It will sink you. Bury you.

The more controversial or high IQ stuff your initial message is, the harder it is to understand that it is, the smaller your initial audience should be. That way, you can double and redouble your forces rather than attach a sinker to you with every person who disagrees with you and wants to see you suffer.

The 6-degree difference

Remember that there is a theory that each person is separated from any other person in this world by only 6 people. To be honest, that’s old data and the number may be smaller now. Regardless, whoever in the world you’re trying to reach, you should find

1. a friend
2. who knows someone
3. who knows someone
4. who knows someone
5. who knows someone
6. who knows that person.

So. Everyone you trust should know who you want to reach… If you have such a person in mind – if not, WHAT KIND of people you want to reach. If you’re not looking for anyone SPECIFICALLY, then more than likely your friends know someone you’re already looking for. Ask them to put you in touch with them, in some private, invite-only -kinda way.

The longer you can avoid “outsiders” from getting into your group, the better.

Create a culture

You are probably quite familiar with how difficult it is to keep hopefuls from getting inside a group, trying to force you into changing for them so you could be friends, with little to no regard to what you want in life.

Create a culture within your group before you’ll “open enrolment” if applicable.

Quality over quantity. Every Step Of The Way.

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