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The solution to the problem of narcissism.

This post requires a general understanding of Dog Type Thinking and Cat Type Thinking. All by itself, it sounds a little crazy. 😉

I use the term Young Soul* when I speak of narcissists. The reason being is that narcissism is not what psychology labels it as; it is immaturity of a reincarnation spirit in comparison to old (and ancient) spirits. A lot of our societal problems come from the decision to ignore spirit and reincarnation as a factor in the way we are, making understanding other people much harder.

Narcissists** are children in an adult body. They are not supposed to be out there in the world exploring their options yet. They belong into a home with their mom and dad or their mother and father-in-law. The traditional generational home is how they are STILL supposed to live, male or female. Feminism, to a narcissistic woman, as in a child in an adult body, is not a liberation; it’s a thing of terror; expectations that they have little to no idea how to fulfill.

The workflow of parenting

We will have to start normalizing two things: For adult children to keep living at their family house throughout their lives, taking over the family estate and business, and for some adult children to leave the home and carve their own way when they want to. Dog Type Thinking parents will want their children to remain at home to take care of them, which means that they need to have more than one or two children to ensure they are not trapping Cat Type Thinking children where a Dog Type Thinking child is needed.

Dog Type Thinking parents

Must have large families. They are practically MADE FOR having children. They make natural parents, because they think much like a child themselves. Swans* protect their young like they wish to be protected; they give them guidance and education in practical matters, and for a child that hasn’t reached puberty yet, they are excellent parents. Problems occur with Cat Type Thinking children that are expected to act like a Dog Type Thinking child.

Dog Type Thinking parents must know that SOME of their children will remain in the home with them, and are supposed to. They also need to understand that their more independent, headstrong children will carve their own way in life, and that’s all good. They’re supposed to. The good thing about the go-getter children is that they’ll likely be financing the lives of the family that stays behind, if their adventurous nature has been accepted and even celebrated by their parents and siblings. However, Cat Type Thinking people take risks in life, and they are not always successful at what they intend to do, so it is a good idea to let these kids go as if they’ll never return, and see if they’ll send money later. They might, they might not, it’s best not to count on much when it comes to Cat Type Thinking children, and it’s natural.

Cat Type Thinking parents

Cat Type Thinking parents will not have a traditional home to bring their children into. This works fine with Cat Type Thinking children who are more than happy to explore new and weird ways of existing, but Dog Type Thinking children will feel the need to mimic the parent, and when it comes to Ravens*, they tend not to be easily copiable. The Cat Type Thinking parents are great parents for Cat Type Thinking children, but give TOO MUCH CHOICE and FREEDOM to their Dog Type Thinking children, who don’t feel liberated but neglected and scared as a consequence. Where a Cat Type Thinking child feels suffocated and trapped, a Dog Type Thinking child feels nurtured and cared for.

Cat Type Thinking parents need to understand that they need to make ALL IMPORTANT LIFE DECISIONS, and a good chunk of the non-important ones (like what to wear) for their Dog Type Thinking children, all the way to the day of their wedding. They will also have to learn to ARRANGE a suitable marriage for their children.

 

 

 

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