The TrEmoR theory is there to help you decide whether your relationship has hope – not to pose expectations on you.

Yes. True Emotion Mirrors can get separated. They can have their own issues. They can fight. They may seem “unaware” of the connection, but it is absolutely NEVER true, that they feel NOTHING. If they feel nothing, they cannot be your True Emotion Mirror, but whether they’re telling you the truth about it or not, is much anybody’s guess is the sad truth. You’ll only know for sure once you’re back together and SAYING THINGS to yourself. Everything else can, technically, be just in your head. Still, we can at least try to figure out whether the odds will favor you or not… If you WISH they’d be your True Emotion Mirror, that is… And if it’s a good likelihood they’re not, if you happen to feel obligated.

If the primary feeling you feel toward them is OBLIGATION, then the answer to their status is very clear: You’re not their True Emotion Mirror. They’re a joy, not an obligation.

I offer the True Emotion Mirror theory as a helpful guide as to whether or not it is sensible to hang onto the hope of love returned from someone who you barely know and to have a somewhat “non-sensical” love affair between yourself and a potential person you’ve never met. You are perfectly permitted to walk away from ANYONE you want to walk away from and from everyone who you feel you could do better than. Whether or not you are True Emotion Mirrors or Twin Flames does not obligate you NOR THEM to anything relationship-wise. It’s just that if you were True Emotion Mirrors, your feelings would not guide you away from them for ANY OTHER REASON but a FALSE belief they don’t want you to be with them.

This theory is for those who have an unusual connection to a virtual stranger, not really to people who know that person very well and who have left the relationship quite aware of what it is like. Not that it can’t happen, but the main reason why I write about True Emotion Mirrors is to answer the question, “Should I move on or not?” “Am I hoping against hope?” “Should I commit to someone I CAN HAVE when the one I want seems to be unavailable?” “Should I settle for something less than I dream about because I’m starting to believe true love doesn’t even exist?” AND “Am I insane to think that this person… *enter a crazy TrEmoR sign here*.” NONE OF THIS is to say you owe this person something. If you are their True Emotion Mirror, holding onto them is easier than letting them go. Still, every True Emotion Mirror would rather let their loved one go than cause them emotional upset and block them from their happiness by holding on by force.

That said, all kinds of situations exist; the main gist of this post is not to decide whether you and your TrEmoR are doing it right or even are each other’s TrEmoRs, but rather why the theory is even there in the first place.

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