They don’t tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. XD

Young Souls* believe that love has to be returned. You love someone, they’re obligated to love you back. Therefore, if they love you, they may not tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot.

They may tell you anything except how they feel.

Still, here’s one clue that you have understand. If someone TELLS YOU, point blank, that they don’t love you nor want you, especially looking you in the eye, angry or not, unless they’re OBVIOUSLY joking, listen to them. They don’t love you. And you can’t fix it by loving them more. You just don’t have the traits that ignite their love, and you may not be able to acquire those traits… Like intelligence, or artistic TALENT (as opposed to skill). (I’m not saying that’s what missing, but people who don’t love you despite your love for them react, even subconsciously, to the traits you don’t have that they need to love a person.)

This is the biggest misunderstanding between people. If you ASSUME a person won’t tell you they love you because they don’t want to put YOU on a spot, and they are not in love with you and you think they’re playing “hardball”… If you think your True Emotion Mirror might be avoiding the topic because he or she thinks you’ll follow anyone who loves you like you were in a leash, tell them how you actually treat people who love you one-sidedly. Do you love them any more for knowing they’re in love with you? Weave that into a joke, a conversation, a blog post, a Facebook message… Anything they might see.

Another reason why people don’t tell you they love you is because it’s too soon. They don’t want to freak you out by saying that too early or before you’ve given them the green light to do so. If you’ve also given them red light or yellow light (not answering messages, acting “flat” when they talk to you, acting disinterested or cold because you think that’d make them more excited about you)… They might think you’re genuinely rejecting them.

You need permission to love a person, yes. You don’t want to say things like that too early on because it’s a type of “putting you on a spot” it’s creating a potentially awkward situation that would be best avoided. They may not think that your love confession would make them automatically fall in love with you, but they may fear getting awkwardly rejected instead.

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