“They’re just trying to scare me,” is not a smart thing to count on.

People’s greatest fear is embarrasment. It is SO BIG, that people will willingly risk their lives to avoid embarrassment. Being caught being a coward is one of those biggest sources of embarrassment a person can feel, and that means there’s a high number of people who do not take a threat – even an obvious threat – seriously, particularly from someone they know. Such as, with a person who is afraid of embarrassment more than losing their lives, it is impossible to scare them with “leave or I will shoot you” because the likelihood that they count on you bluffing is high. (Therefore, never make a threat you wouldn’t carry out.)

Losing face is literally a fate worse than death to some people. They will fight it with deep denial to their final breath if they can. “They’re just saying that to make me feel bad.” (Why do they?) “They’re just trying to scare me off.” (Uhhuh, yes. Why? Why is it a “just” situation?)

COUNTING ON someone “just saying things” when they are warning you is NOT SMART. It’s not worth the risk, and it is embarrassing in itself for a person to be that clueless that they don’t know when to take a warning seriously. That they are SO NAIVE that they don’t realize what other people are capable of. That they would be DUMB and NAIVE enough to sometimes literally take the promise of a mafia boss to tell them that they’ll protect this person forever, and then IGNORE it when that same mafia boss is telling them that if you put a foot wrong one more time, I will kill you.

Legal fringe pleasures

When someone is going somewhere that they know you shouldn’t go with them, because they know you’re not into it, you should probably just listen. Suppose they say they’re going to a no safe word BDSM party, they know they’re going to get gagged and bound to a post, and they first tell you “no you can’t go because” and then describe the VERY REAL expectation of the experience they’re expected to have. But if you’re one of those people who believe NOBODY would volunteer for that, so you now suddenly “realize” that all that BDSM talk has been “all talk”. Next, you just ad-hock decide they’re going to get into an exclusive party with (minor) celebrities and fancy dinners, (or something), and they’re just trying to scare you off so they don’t have to share… You know what I’m saying? So you decide you DEFINITELY have to be a part of whatever they’re going for. Now, if they finally say: “OK, fine, come, but you’ll have to take part, you know, this is actually THAT kind of club, if you walk in the door, you’ve given consent, you know…? Don’t come crying to me when they beat you silly and fuck you in your clenched anus…”

Grown up people HAVE TO KNOW that other grown ups have sexual tastes and fetishes that do not fit everyone’s bag, and THAT SHIT is PERFECTLY LEGAL to take part in, as long as everyone consents to it. You must understand that adults are PERMITTED TO take part in a lot of stuff not everybody would think is even legal, or should be legal, but it is. You’d do well to realize that people maybe going to a hard-core BDSM party, full of excitement and joy, that would not match YOUR feelings about the matter. Therefore, you’re thinking “celebrities and cocaine”, they’re thinking “gags, cuffs, whipping and play rapes in the hands of some terribly ugly old fat man…” with the same excitement. You CANNOT COUNT on people lying to you, just because you wish they were.

Because sometimes, they’re planning on getting play raped and gagged by a celebrity while both of them are on cocaine… ;)  Just saying. If you can get me into a party like this, I don’t need the cocaine to be interested. Shoot me a line, will ya?

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