Tired of constant change?
Here’s the thing: The TRUTH doesn’t change. Opinions change, the truth does not. Good children have always been raised with the same method: A balance of permissiveness and discipline. Good adulthood has always been lived the same way: A balance of fun and responsibility for others. If you want a solid base for your life, figure out the truth about yourself, your way of thinking, and the way people are, and stop sifting courses every time there’s a new social media influencer making waves.
Don’t become OBSTINATE in your opinions to avoid change. Don’t cling to faith without truth or beliefs without facts. Base your reality on facts, the truth, not beliefs, fashion, transient trends, and popular opinion. Learn to DISAGREE with people. Learn to be disagreeable. Learn to voice your opinion in the negative. Learn to be disobedient. Not for the sake of disobedience, disobey for stuff that matters. Just… First. Figure out what matters TO YOU, and then fight for it. Create a space for it. Live it.
Stay out of trouble until the trouble is worth making. Learn to distance yourself from what are commonly held ideas; adopt what is worth adopting FOR GOOD, not for the time being until eventually, people change their minds about it when the test fails. YOU KNOW there are things that people chase now as the most important thing in the world that will be absolutely LUDICROUS in 50 years’ time. Don’t chase shit that will be ludicrous in 50 years’ time. Hold loyal to your immortal soul, the one who has seen bullshit come and go. Don’t rise and fall with the bullshit anymore… Don’t even stay in the sewer, for heaven’s sake. 😉 It’s not healthy in there. 😉
Let others change their minds as much as they like, and you, you change your own mind as you see fit.
You Do Not Need To Agree With Everyone On Everything Or Do As You’re Told! You’re a grown-up (or going to be a grown-up), and THAT gives you the freedom of thinking for your own bloody self. (Bloody? Yes. There’s blood in your veins. Let’s keep it there. It’s where it belongs. Lol.)1
Learn to tell the difference between a joke and doctrine. It’s a very important difference. ↩
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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