TLOTTW:Inviting a happy future that involves another person

When we are trying to end the separation from our soulmates, we may have simply gotten our wires crossed. As I wrote in a previous post, what you think (or more to the point, don’t think) about your True Emotion Mirror sexually sends a clear message to them about what you want. The same is true with the rest of your relationship. If you don’t have a clear idea of what you want to experience with your soulmate, you might have to try and fantasize about your future a little. This works similarly to an invitation to a date: “What would you like to do if we’d get together?” In your mind, you create visions and visuals about your future life together, or the next moment you’d like to spend with them, and if their soul likes what they see (and they do if you “think at them”) they will start moving towards you for that experience.

The main thing to realise is this: Society has given you a very strict and DAMNED BORING outline of what a serious relationship looks like. The trouble is even in the description of it: Serious. Serious…! What a serious relationship means is commitment, responsibility, respectability, social standing, family, continued support and all that… Often, without the excitement of a True Emotion Mirror in the picture. Who in their right mind would want to make a leap to that, if what they think about you is as follows: Hot, fun, sexy, mind-blowing, life-altering, insane, crazy, intense, loving, breath taking… Sure, when things align all the good stuff of the boring list are there, too, but if all you’ve ever seen is boring marriages, you don’t want to put your love in risk for a ring and a marital bed!

Often, we know that the ideal relationship with our True Emotion Mirror is something so amazing and unusual that you simply rather hold onto the fantasy of it than drag it down to reality and beat it down to the size of a traditional marriage. No True Emotion Mirror couple will survive that test unless it happens to be exactly what they both want – and many of us are too evolved and challenge-hungry for a common marriage, even if we don’t realize that consciously yet. The one thing that may be keeping you apart is that neither one of you has figured out what to do with the other yet.

Focus on the fantasy. What would life be like if nobody had ever told you what to do? Take a simple exercise: Imagine you are the first person in the history of humankind to own clothes. How would you store them? Stacked inside a dark closet that you can barely see into, forcing you to fold every item, and every morning that you’re looking for something to wear, you’ll mess up the careful stacks that you swore you would keep like that from the last clean-up… But you failed again… Because the way it’s always done is a fucking stupid way to do it!! How would you do that if you had nobody to tell you how to store your clothes? Next, do the same thing with your ideal relationship, with a specific person, maybe a few people, and with a theoretic ideal group of people you merely imagine.

Once you hit the nail on the head, you will feel FANTASTIC about that way of being and loving. Be it a life on a houseboat, a life wearing matching bikinis and bermudas in the Bahamas, or a life spent in the scientific study of lizards of the Galapagos Islands, you let your mind wander. If it is traditional you want, do focus on that in detail: the way your house looks, the kitchen table you have your breakfast at, your kids around it, and how you’d talk to each other every day. You will start sending a whole new kind of “I want” frequency than before, and that is going to work in your favor; you just watch…

By the way, singletons, this also applies to how to find your True Emotion Mirror you haven’t met yet.

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