TLOTTW:Learn to trust your Destination Soulmates to want to be with you

We are all linked to each other on the soul level, we all know that by now. Now, every thought that you have, sends a signal to everyone else in this world about what is going on with you and what it is that you want out of life. Scary, right? Most of it drowns into the noise of nonsensical thoughts, just imagine Twitter or Facebook continually updating, but at an inconceivable rate in comparison, right? Most of your thoughts get drowned, but JUST ONE POWERFUL THOUGHT can change the rest of your life. Now, that aside… When people want something BADLY, most of us start hanging onto that thought with an energy that SUFFOCATES it’s possibility to take a life and actually manifest. If you hold onto it too tight, it won’t be able to come to you.

Women have trouble trusting men to find their way into relationships. Confess! I claim no innocence to this, just as guilty as anyone else; No matter how much I love and trust my guys, I somehow couldn’t trust that they would know what to do or how to find their way to me. I trusted they want the same thing, but I felt like I had to be the ultimate over-seer to make sure everyone does their bit. If that wasn’t bad enough, I have a legion of women who I don’t even trust myself hanging about trying to make things happen for me or, as it may be, trying to stop things from happening – depending on their individual point of view.

Men, in relationships, on the other hand, have taken a very passive role. They go where they are told to go, and that, clearly, is not a good thing, because the person with the strongest of will tends to win the match. People who have no issues asking others to do what they want them to do will usually get their way – even when it is not about true love. And, at the risk of sounding dramatic, a lot of spiritual practise is a tug-o-war between people, what they want and who they want and how they want it to happen.

I suggest to you that a part of why you may find difficult to relax about things is because there is another woman or another man with their fingernails and teeth sunk right in the leg of Your Guy, or Your Girl, and you know that letting go will mean that they will wind up “in the wrong hands”. I tell you this so you can relax about not relaxing… However, you do want to find the balance as fast as you can, and to create a pathway from your guys to you, so that they can take it when they are able.

Now, the other part of the equation is to trust your or men to NOT get into a relationship with the wrong woman just because someone wants them. The thought of “I trust you”, will create a powerful signal to your men, and they, too, can relax about their fear of winding up in the wrong hands, and, trust you me, they do  have that fear. We should all realize, however, that the event of you winding up in the wrong relationship is completely up to you, and that you can trust your guy to take care of their own life and avoid relationships they don’t truly want.

If you truly love your guy or your girl, the truth is that you only want for them what they want for themselves, and whatever will make them the happiest. This means that you will have to trust them not to go against themselves, and by becoming conscious of this, you will also be able to send them a signal that you trust them not to hurt themselves in their search for true love by compromising and winding up with someone they don’t really love.

Then, trust that whatever is yours is yours, and you don’t have to fight for it; you will simply have to allow yourself to become yourself and, thus, to take your own place in this world. However, as always, follow your instincts, and relax about where they are guiding you, you know sometimes you have to stop someone else from grabbing what is yours – and remember that it is a service to all humanity for you to be where you’re supposed to be and with the people who you’re supposed to be with. Every time when YOU are not where you should be, you are with somebody else’s guy or girl, doing somebody else’s work…

So… Whose life are you living? Do you have any right keeping it?

(See how we all hang onto the next best thing just in case? How about you be one of those people who let go of stuff that doesn’t belong to you, so you can free your hands to grab what is rightfully yours.)

Trust your soulmates to have your back.

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