TLOTTW:Receiving it once you’ve let it go

In Law of Attraction exercises we are advised to let go of our dreams to receive it. It is a little controversial piece of advice because it guides you to not trying, in a sense – when you don’t fully understand what “letting go” means and how it differs from giving up. There is two ways to “let go”, one is to give into the flow and one is to give up even trying. Both of these feelings are important, and it is equally important that you don’t fight and manipulate your emotions to fit whatever you think you should be feeling. Problems are solved at the root of the feeling, not at pretending the cause doesn’t give you the feeling it does. Let’s reverse:

The reason why you are expected to let go of control is so that events that  ARE out of your control would have room to manifest. Skipping the part of how I know, I simply explain this: Our souls are very sensitive to the needs of others but IF AND ONLY when the other stops trying to control their feelings and emotional reactions of others. (“I want you to love my product or love me” will certainly create the opposite reaction in others.) We also cannot feel a feeling that is under someone else’s control, and people who keep trying usually try to put on an air of “I’ve got it all under control”. If you’ve got everything under control, you need no help nor luck coming your way, do you?

We are often trying hard to work on a business or solving a relationship issue or even working on self-improvement so that we would be better at what we do. We work tirelessly year after year, and then, suddenly run out of steam or interest due to things simply not working out too well for you. You notice you work 10 times as hard as other people, and you get paid 10 times less. You’ve worked your ass off, and you’ve got nothing to show for it. You give up trying and BOOM something happens and your dreams are manifested.

If you weren’t so pissed off at the timing, you might actually now be happy.

Why the timing? You wanted to be perfect at what you do. You wanted to create something pristine. For as long as you are still working on the details and trying to work out a new, better way to do it, you are on your way to perfection. For as long as you keep going, you’ve got a chance of making whatever you are doing, perfect. Once you run out of steam or run out of ideas you have come as close as you’re going to get to perfecting what you tried to achieve. This is as far as you’re going to go, and now it’s time for you to get what you needed.

Plus, you just released control.

You allowed other factors into your life.

It is important that you trust your own process. Do what you have to do, but if you can, do loosen up your grip a bit. It’ll make your life easier along the way.

If you wanted to create a massively successful business, you don’t want to start  up with something that will barely make it. Your business will keep on dragging it’s feet until you’ve got things perfected, because your soul will not allow you to release anything half-baked into the world. The higher your ambition, the harder you will be on yourself before anything moves ahead.

In love, the higher you want to fly with your lover, the more secure you have to be within yourself to be able to handle such love. You must grow up, become secure in yourself and become strong, because true love is really testing sometimes… I know you may want it because you feel broken, but if you want fiery passion, you cannot be broken for it.

Remember, you are your own worst enemy, you and your ambition – and without that ambition, you’d be just an average Joe. Don’t forget your goal… And also, if you start with a goal, you need to build the road from your goal to yourself, not the other way around, let the goal find you, because right now, you are too far from the goal.

Also, what is noteworthy, that sometimes people start something with NO expectations at all. They are not expecting a big success, but lo and behold, they suddenly find success. Sometimes this is the start, then you realize that “hey, I’ve got something here, this could really make me milleons” and the progress jams at this realization. Your ambition has been aroused. Sometimes, you start with a goal before you’ve even had a conscious thought about it: You saw a movie of a super hero and that’s how you wanted to feel…

Guess what…?

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