This connection is the ultimate romantic and sexual love connection to another person. It is your dream partner; you couldn’t possibly imagine anyone better – even though your imagination may be limited if you haven’t met them yet. However, I will throw caution in the wind in this post and simply describe what this connection is, not what it is not. If you have trouble in your relationship, you need to read more to make sure you’re talking about the same thing.

That said:

True Emotion Mirrors recognize each other immediately when they look each other in the eye.

You may not recognize them by the way they look. You may work side by side with them for years and not notice they’re there until you look them in the eye. THEN, the recognition will be instant. True Emotion Mirrors can see their relationship the way it has been and, often, as a consequence, how it will be the moment their eyes meet. Sometimes this connection can be recognized in a photograph or video, but that’s not always the case. The reason for this is, that a person who is being photographed or videotaped isn’t looking at their True Emotion Mirror at the time. Their eyes don’t look familiar to their True Emotion Mirror in that situation. Still, they might be drawing from their past life when acting, for instance, and be, actually, connected to their True Emotion Mirror at the time they’re being filmed.

This connection is created out of love for each other.

The True Emotion Mirror connection started sometime in history, much the same way as any common crush did. It’s based on instant attraction – it NEVER EVER starts with a “meh” feeling. It NEVER grows from NOTHING at all. It is never something that you can just decide to teach another person or command them to feel. The LEAST of the ingredients in a True Emotion Mirror relationship would be INSTANT, MUTUAL ATTRACTION, even if this is a fresh new connection.

(This is why only the Savants* have True Emotion Mirrors. The Normal Person* have Savage Spirit Mirrors.)

There is potentially multiple True Emotion Mirrors – but it doesn’t mean what you might think it means.

One person can potentially have multiple True Emotion Mirrors, but that, to me, doesn’t mean a choice between one or the other, but a choice between monogamy and polygamy. Polygamy takes 3 different base forms: One woman with several men, one man with several women, and a marriage between several women and several men. While a monogamist might find this idea depressing, a true polygamist will find this idea exciting and reassuring at the same time. You’ll also more than likely already know which type you are or “wish you were” which are one and the same thing… This also automatically concludes that your True Emotion Mirrors are (excited by) the same type, and you should not hide this from your (potential) True Emotion Mirror(s).

Fear for one’s sanity… and heart.

True Emotion Mirror relationships are intense from the start. They MAY include violence and anger, but that is not a reason to stick around an abusive individual who you don’t genuinely and thoroughly love.

This intensity can be such that one starts to fear for one’s sanity – either you develop a telepathic connection to each other spontaneously, or you just feel like your whole world revolves around this one person and “loves me, loves me not.” Either way, you may feel… insane, and it’s not always a good feeling. You may, at times, feel absolute terror with your True Emotion Mirror – not because they’re scary, but because you fear losing them so intensely.

The fear of loss is often a sign of a polygamous bind, as we’ve been forced into monogamous societies, where a choice between one True Emotion Mirror and another has had to be made – often in favour of a Partial Value Mirror, who offers “a stable” love… But I don’t recommend that line of thinking for this new dawning era… It’s very outdated and misinformed way of thinking about love.

Highly sexual feelings.

One thing that men often scare about their True Emotion Mirror is the fact their feelings are INTENSELY sexual. Women feel the same intensity, yes, but they are not brainwashed into thinking their sexuality hurts men. Men, however, may feel that this one woman ignites their “toxic masculinity” and all of the sudden, they want to do to this woman all the things they are being hated about; basically rape her, own her, lock her into a room and growl at the door at anyone attempting to come close to her. He should at least see what her reaction would be if he confessed those feelings to her.

Even in milder cases, men may fear their attraction is purely carnal, and that it wouldn’t, at the end of the day, last the demands of marriage. In that, men are dead wrong… That said, some of them may have to accept they are, in fact, polygamous. One man can have this intense chemistry with several women, or a man can have this bizarre need to own and possess and simultaneously share her with other men… Or even seen her “punished” for her sexual allure in the form of seeing her f***d by other men.

If this sounds familiar… Fear not. Perfectly normal. Not toxic masculinity but true love. (What would lesbian feminists know of heterosexual desire anyway?)

Heterosexual women should help matters along by speaking their mind about how they truly feel about men and their sexuality, perhaps in public more than before; we may love talking about it with men, but maybe it should come out of the shadows in the modern world.

The brain kicks in.

While the first meeting with a True Emotion Mirror maybe magical, even last-a-lifetime-magical, in the way that you’ve looked at someone in the eye once, and “just know” this is your “the One” or whatever term you’ll use, the brain will soon kick into gear and ruin everything. We’ve been told over and over that “you can’t expect to have everything in one person” “true love isn’t real” or “love at first sight isn’t real.” Every warning and logically induced fear will start playing on your mind: “A woman/man like that would never love you back.” “You’ve lost your mind.” “You’re fat/ugly/whore/dumb/damaged, he’d never love you the way you are.” All of these thoughts will fight their way in and at least attempt to push your earlier calm knowledge out of your heart and mind.

True Emotion Mirrors should try and see their counterpart OBJECTIVELY: “Is this person, OBJECTIVELY SPEAKING, just about as good looking as I am, perhaps equally smart, equally talented, and equally sexually desirable as I am?” If the answer to this question is “probably not” then I’m afraid this might be just a one-sided crush, even if it had spanned multiple lifetimes. This would feel like you’ve given yourself the full reign to fantasise about this person, and it has become so much a pleasant habit, you’ve done it several lifetimes in a row.

Force yourself to be objective.

Now, True Emotion Mirrors have SEEN one-sided crushes like that before. They’ve been the object of them, perhaps had a few. Therefore, we fear this is again the same thing. We fear that “OMG, I’m doing this again… Or I’m doing the same thing as that idiot I knew once.” Therefore, going forward OBJECTIVITY is very good thing to gain. FORCE yourself to think about it objectively and logically and you’ll find your way back to romance and brainless, utter, maddening, fearless love.

That’s what my texts are primarily here for… To make this relationship a reality for the Savants*.

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