True Emotion Mirror or a crush; everyone has someone who they love more than anyone else

This is another “explaining the obvious” posts, so please don’t get too confused if you wonder why I am even saying this. To some people, this seems to be a difficult concept to grasp.

When I sometimes describe the True Emotion Mirror, I say, and a lot of other people say, that this is someone who you love more than ANYONE ELSE in this world. This, to a True Emotion Mirror means that OMG, the person who I do not think could ever even love me back… Might! A True Emotion Mirror does not EXPECT to be loved by their counterpart, they are always a little surprised and doubtful about it, until they reach the full surrender of the Mature State of True Emotion Mirror level, the bonds that are less than this seem to be something that a person can demand, expect, and be feeling filthy about if they don’t get what they want. To a True Emotion Mirror, the counterpart is always larger than life in their eyes, they see them as being completely incredible compared to others, but a Trail Companion* to this same person sees them as well… Someone who thinks a bit too highly of themselves, most likely, and as someone who would do well for themselves to marry someone better than them – their Trail Companion*, who is the observer in this case.

Unfortunately, a non-True Emotion Mirror, or a non-True Emotion Mirror reading the same text will think: “Oh who’s the hottest guy/girl I know…” Oh it’s so-and-so, and they figure ok, this person must be my True Emotion Mirror, it’s says so here! I’ve always fancied that person! But no. That is simply a crush, sexual attraction, maybe even love in the mix, but NOT a True Emotion Mirror. The True Emotion Mirror connection goes SO MUCH DEEPER, even in the Uncharted state. It is a meeting of minds, not bodies, it is full understanding of how the other one thinks, even though they’ve never met before – and even though there is still a chance the logic gets in the way and misunderstandings, ironically, are common place with True Emotion Mirrors , but emotionally, instinctively, you understand each other perfectly, but in this cynical/logical world it is hard to trust that feeling and that causes misunderstandings between the True Emotion Mirrors .

By simple logic, everyone of us has someone who we regard being “the hottest” “the sexiest” or “the most loved” person in this world, but that doesn’t automatically make them your True Emotion Mirror. The True Emotion Mirror is also rarely one’s child, so if your instant reaction is that “I love my daughter/son the most in this world, therefore they are my True Emotion Mirror” again, you are most likely mistaken unless you also feel an intense sexual pull to your own child – so for your sake, I hope that is not the case, but it can be. You love your True Emotion Mirror more than you love your children, normally, at least in a very different way, and that is also something that the current societal norm cannot seem to accept. This is a good thing, however, because they need to leave you one day, and it will give them the knowledge that they are in your second seat, free to move and fall in love with THEIR True Emotion Mirror, their perfect counterpart, and they do not have to worry about their parents being left with no sexual love. Ideally, you have your children with your True Emotion Mirror (rarely happens for a selection of reasons) who are then raised in the perfect love of True Emotion Mirrors , to whom they are the 2nd Tier True Emotion Mirrors . It is not a good place for a child to be when their parent is trying to replace their primary sexual relationship with the relationship to their child, and unfortunately, this is more common than what it ever should be, sometimes even admired; a mother sometimes raises their son as their subservient, and gets admiration for “having such a devoted and well-raised son”. This son should, however, be more devoted to his wife than his mother, obviously.

Ideally, you should handle your “love the most” scales separately from your lovers and your family members, it is best to not even compare your lovers to your children or other family members, but some people do this automatically and regard the lovers a competition to one’s family, although it certainly, and obviously, shouldn’t be so.

(What is also to be noted about the soulmate theory, that if person A is your True Emotion Mirror, you are their True Emotion Mirror, and if a person B is your 2nd Tier, you are their 2nd Tier, too. It cannot be that you are a person A’s True Emotion Mirror, while they are your 2nd Tier, let alone a Partial. These connections always match, also, if a person A is a True Emotion Mirror to person B, and C, then C is also the TMS of B and A. To say they weren’t, would be as logical as to say “I am related to A, but A is not related to me.” When unsure, and particularly when you are SO SURE you cannot see another option, I’d advice to assume you’re of a lower connection type than what you think you are. Those of you who are truly TRULY in love with someone amazing, simply read the soulmate type descriptions a few times and figure out where you belong…)

One way to describe a True Emotion Mirror is that people who feel they could have anyone they want when THEY lose their self-confidence with someone, then we are getting near a True Emotion Mirror level of WOW… And it may take decades to build up the self-confidence to trust that this connection is actually real and to make the first move.

So no. Just because someone is “the hottest boyfriend/girlfriend you ever had who ran on you” definitely NOT a True Emotion Mirror sign.

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