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True Emotion Mirror Passion

This is a difficult topic to write about because there is so much to say about True Emotion Mirror sexuality and yet you want to say so little. 🙂 It is such an intimate thing, but also so wild and raw, that you’d rather keep it to yourself. Yet, it’s so powerful, that even people who observe TrEmoRs can feel the sexual bond that they share. However, I’m just going to have to deal with that particular discomfort.

I will get the easy part over with first. 🙂 When the True Emotion Mirror couple isn’t completely attuned (yet), what often best describes their sexual experience would be UTTER TERROR. With so much at stake, every step you take seems taunting and never as much when we get close to the True Emotion Mirror. This is to say that even if you find yourself terrified, or not quite as at ease with your True Emotion Mirror as you’d like, it is not a question of ‘this is not my True Emotion Mirror’, quite the opposite; a True Emotion Mirrors who are not entirely OK with themselves yet are not free to express their authentic sexuality freely, either. That makes both of them awkward.

Even if fear is present, the constant longing for your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t leave you in peace; it can be like every pore of your body was crying for them. The fear to get close and the need to be there will combine into devastation, an instinctive knowledge that letting yourself go here will potentially cause you serious pain later if you are forced to separate. Sometimes this fear of loss in itself is enough to send a True Emotion Mirror running.

When aligned, emotionally ready, and secure, the union takes you into that place that you never thought possible; crying. They say that if you love your partner, you will always look into their eyes during lovemaking, but even the thought of it makes my eyeballs burn. Even taking the shortest of glance would cause such an emotional reaction that I am afraid my frail body would not be able to withstand it. This same intense burning can turn a simple dance at the local dance club into the most erotic experience of your life, skin burning with a desire that turns hands into branding irons.

There is hardly a description that will be an overstatement, there is so much pain and relief in every single moment – and then at another time it can be the easiest, simplest, most comfortable experience ever. Never ever believe the people who say that True Emotion Mirror relationships are not about sex. When looking for true love, sexual passion has GOT TO be there. If your hand doesn’t burn at the touch – keep looking.

It is also not about candlelight and tantra, although, why not, but that would be limiting to your love. In fact, in a True Emotion Mirror bond, all sexual taboos should be disappearing one by one, all of them – you should be able to find the pure version of every kink known to man… Except maybe the balloon fetish. 😉 Lollipops, for sure. 😉

True Emotion Mirrors never clash in what they consider sexy – his desire becomes her desire and vice versa – unless social stigma still persists in them. There is always a loving, pure, and respectful form to every “perversion” and at best, your True Emotion Mirror and you will find your way there together, they will always be as “sick” as you are, trust me… You don’t find sicker bunch of puppies than mine!

Challenge your imagination. Take the last thing you would do sexually and imagine a situation where you would be fine with it (burning for it) with your True Emotion Mirror(s). This doesn’t mean you would necessarily GO THERE, but most taboos will become conceivable options, given the right circumstances, at least on a theoretical level. Challenge: Imagine your True Emotion Mirror had been born an ape… I know. That’s as far as this can go.

This sexuality does not come from body contact, but from the contact of the soul. This is the reason why the body doesn’t matter when you burn for your True Emotion Mirror’s touch no matter who (or what, or what gender or age) they are. The True Emotion Mirror creates a sense of heat in the root, chakral, and heart chakra, and I would be ready to claim that there is an additional energy point in the mouth/lip area, that comes alive with a True Emotion Mirror. When kissing them, the whole face becomes tingly and heated in a way that it would never do in a normal kiss; nearly morphing into the other person. (Okay, that may sound a bit alieny on a second read. :D) As this is a soul connection, a body is not even needed for this experience to take place.

Telepathy and joined past life experiences help us to know exactly what to do and how with our True Emotion Mirrors. Unfortunately, a lot of women think that lacking this ability makes a man a lousy lover, but the fact is that if this doesn’t happen the man is simply not your True Emotion Mirror. (Provided that you are aligned and have gotten over the utter terror phase.) When you find yourself dissatisfied with the fact that your lover doesn’t read your mind, you are probably used to, in a previous lifetime, your lover reading your mind. When I and one of my True Emotion Mirror talked about this (telepathically), the sheer frustration came out as a mutual gasp: “They” (men/women) “HAVE TO be able to READ MINDS!!” (Such a small ask!)

As we are, in fact, capable of reading each other’s minds, the sexual experience does not need to happen in the same room, same country, or even on the same continent. The soul will “deliver the message” wherever your body may be.

True Emotion Mirrors can also be technically non-sexual when the same gender. This is an interesting bit of kink here. There are only two genders in play, but there is no limit on the number of partners in True Emotion Mirror relationships, so something happens: Some of us are utterly heterosexual, in which case you will probably find your “group” to be limited to two, or you may be the ‘link’ True Emotion Mirror that unites several members of the opposite sex together (I am like that). I still call these soulmates True Emotion Mirrors to each other, because they enjoy each other’s sexuality through their link soulmate, and often will cross boundaries between heterosexuality and homosexuality quite without effort, even though they were “officially” heterosexual.

They often find their bisexual side only through their opposite sex True Emotion Mirror that links them together. Sometimes they think they are utterly homosexual, but find their opposite gender True Emotion Mirror, and boom – they’re bisexual! But as with all True Emotion Mirrors, their desires match, so they will never have to cross boundaries that the other doesn’t want to be crossed – at least if they are fully attuned and ready for such adventures. (Don’t take that as a challenge that you have to start doing stuff you’re not comfortable with just to prove that you’re either in love with a True Emotion Mirror or enlightened enough to enjoy the sickest of fantasies, OK? It has to feel good and evolve naturally.)

As with everything spiritual, even True Emotion Mirror relationships can be interfered with by societal norms and expectations. Religion and beliefs have always taken a stance in what is “the right way” of sexuality, True Emotion Mirrors being one of the dogmatic teachings of the “right kind” of sexuality. (One man, one woman, adults, highly ‘romantic’ and ‘spiritual’, clean ‘candlelight and roses’ -sex only.) All of these expectations will interfere in your relationship, so please give yourself the time to rid yourself of all guilt that you may be carrying.

Sometimes your true kinks may be so confronting, that your spiritual work is “required by the Universe” before reuniting must clear the taboos you are limited by just to make sure you won’t end up separating when you are forced to face your sexual kinks and the taboos surrounding it. Finding out your True Emotion Mirror is a cross-dressing bisexual when you always thought of him straightest of the straight is something that you’d want to be cool with before you find it out the hard way – but sometimes those are the things that are designed to send us running so we can grow out of our fear of different forms of sexual pleasure.

Whatever your poison, enjoy it to the fullest, let your mind wander, imagine, indulge… This is what love and life are about.

Sweet, eh?

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