True Emotion Mirror relationships are not suitable for child-adults hence the late reunions

True Emotion Mirror relationships are extremely intense and demanding relationships, as you all are well aware. We live in a culture in which children and childhood is so over-emphasized that parents have hard time letting go the control of their children, resulting into spiritual helicopter-parenting well after the children have left home… Decades after. Many True Emotion Mirrors do not return to one another until they are at the stage of their parent-child relationship, where the roles reverse and the child starts to take care of the parent. This switch is often instant, the child has NO TIME for normal adulthood, they are simply children and then they turn from children into their parent’s care takers, forcing them to be connected to their parents their entire adulthood. This is clearly not healthy but that is the way things are in this current time.

The trouble is, that whilst we are being pseudo babies for our parents, we cannot handle a relationship as complex and demanding as our True Emotion Mirror relationship is. It simply isn’t happening, because our self-confidence is not near the level that it needs to be, we are not fully self-reliant adults and that is why we are still alone. There is no wiggle room in this, because True Emotion Mirrors is all about robust, mature love, AMORE; something lush, passionate, unashamed, full and fruitful. This cannot live under the watchful eye of a parent who fears anything sexual or dangerous, anything that might cause a boo-boo on their little baby girl or baby boy… And True Emotion Mirrors are nothing but fierce, and the courting period WILL AND MUST cause heart ache and drama.

Anyone who wants to be prepared for true, fierce, passionate love, must grow independent of their parents first. There is no two ways about this. Any issues with mothers or fathers MUST be dealt with one way or another or this ship won’t set sail. It doesn’t mean you need to be in good terms with your parents, but it does mean that the umbilical chord must be cut, the apron strings destroyed and you will need to become your own person, even if it meant complete cut from your parents… Hopefully it doesn’t have to come to that, but if you want your love story, your parents have to accept that you are a grown up and responsible for your own decisions, no matter how foolhardy they might be.

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