Is the fact you find someone irritating and even infuriating a True Emotion Mirror sign?

While True Emotion Mirrors CAN BE infuriating to each other, it cannot be considered much of a True Emotion Mirror sign, as anyone can be infuriated with quite anybody in this world. (Just think of Vladimir Putin? Your True Emotion Mirror, much?) 

Is the fact someone you’re in love with rejects you a True Emotion Mirror sign?

Obviously not. Only a rejection junkie would think that… And teach you that.

Nobody hurts you like True Emotion Mirror – is it then so that if you MANAGE to hurt someone, you’ve proven to them to be their True Emotion Mirror?

Obviously not. Anyone can hurt anyone, but it simply hurts more when it’s someone who a) you love more than you love yourself and b) someone you trusted not to. Everyone else’s hurts and words are like water off a duck’s back in comparison, not meaning the hurt isn’t there at all.

Also, other people have to put a bit of effort into hurting you, but True Emotion Mirrors do it quite accidentally because their words to each other mean so much. A carelessly phrased sentence can cause much damage, let alone something said with the INTENT of hurting the other (usually as a reaction to a  perceived rejection (“I had fun with X” taken to mean “I had MORE fun with X than I’ve ever had with you,”) or insult (“I love your red hair” said as a genuine compliment, but taken for a sarcastic sneer, not a compliment.)

Why do True Emotion Mirrors seem to SPOIL everything for everyone else?

This is from the outsider’s perspective; True Emotion Mirrors (and Precious Soulmates) can be seen as a bit of a “bad seed” or a “bad influence” on a previously well-behaved (well-controlled) individual. The reason why the True Emotion Mirror seems to have a “bad influence” on their counterpart is that they not only give each other permission to be who they actually are but love each other for who they truly are rather than force them to conform to a norm or expectation like everyone else around them.

Once the love that a person can expect to receive is linked to their AUTHENTIC self, rather than an OBEDIENT self, the people who previously expected them to obey will now struggle to keep them under control, as this person no longer have to rely on scraps of love to feel loved, and they don’t have to BEHAVE in an inauthentic way in order to feel loved.

“The authentic self” is NOT the person others knew, the person who OBAYED and WAS NICE. The authentic self is free to break the rules, be funny, be whimsical, and act in unpredictable ways or start careers their family or friends see as being “unwanted” or “undesirable.”

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