True Emotion Mirrors break all your relationship rules – and it feels good.

The one thing you can say about your True Emotion Mirror is that they never really feel bad to you, no matter what they do. You kinda enjoy them “torturing” you; you love them for dumping you; you love them for forcing you to stay (or, dare I say it, into sex with them) – they kinda break all of your rules. Whatever you’ve said “I’ll never”, your True Emotion Mirror might be the exception to the rule. Your resolve “I’ll never let a man/woman treat me that way…” They’re the exception. This is especially noticeable to a Idealists*. All of a sudden, all of your high-held ideas fly out the fucking window… And you bid them a happy farewell.

And still, someone else trying to do the same thing to you as you’d gladly allow your True Emotion Mirror… nahhuh, and no way. No way, get fucked, fuck off.

Your True Emotion Mirror is kind of a natural dominant or dominatrix, someone who is allowed to shove you around. Now, this is problematic, when someone loves another person to a True Emotion Mirror level without being one – that leads to actual abuse. Still, all that stuff that normally falls under abuse, between True Emotion Mirror is a little bit of a foreplay. The difference is, it feels good for both of you – particularly the one getting beaten up. It is so true, that sometimes a True Emotion Mirror may IMAGINE domination happening because they enjoy the thought of being dominated by his person. Granted, there seems to be a lot of instances in the #meToo movement where either a TrEmoR or a one-sided crush wants to IMAGINE that domination has happened when it hasn’t and has raised a false flag on a person they merely WISH had done what they accuse them of.

The point of this post is… If you ENJOY being dominated by a person, you’re not insane. You’re in love. Now, figure out how your dynamic works, and notice that you may be “a switch”, or that while he dominates her here, she dominates him there.

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