True Emotion Mirrors get more intense as soul ages

It is said in many articles that True Emotion Mirrors are rare to find and that they are found only on the last incarnation cycle that we are going to experience. Both of these statements are not true, but the intense relationship that is known as “True Emotion Mirrors”  is unique and rare for another reason. I will use my own terminology for the rest of the article, just to keep things simpler: True Emotion Mirrors describe the exact same phenomena as True Emotion Mirrors, but the details have been corrected to describe the reality of them a bit more. (Making it easier to make informed decisions about one’s love life, when True Emotion Mirror articles have the capacity to do more damage than good in many cases.)

As the True Emotion Mirrors first meet in their earlier incarnations in the Uncharted State, their bond is in its infancy. They meet each other and their mutual goals lead them to each other. Their admiration towards each other gradually make them more like each other because they want to be more like each other. They love each other dearly, more and more as each lifetime goes by, but they have not yet gone through all the trials and tribulations in their life cycles that older True Emotion Mirror couples have. They haven’t lost a child at infancy, they haven’t been separated because of a war, they haven’t died in each other’s arms, nor have they gotten each other killed by each other. Their experiences together are limited and mild in comparison. That has  a direct effect on how intensely they react when they meet, for one thing, but when you have seen your soulmate crucified, decapitated, have had their baby stolen from you by cutting it out of the womb, you are going to be half screaming in agony whilst the joy of seeing them alive and well again overwhelms you. The hells that you have gone through together burn their mark on your soul and a reaction that is shared between warriors meeting again is going to be different to people who had fun together at a band camp.

The age of your soul – the development level of your soul, in its turn, has an effect on what kind of challenges we are ready for in each lifetime. The younger the soul, the more it needs security and norms, societal boundaries and protection provided by governments and society in general – the more dependent the person is on other people and communities. The older the soul, the more they like to challenge themselves and see how much fire they can take before they give up the game. The older the soul, the more they enjoy the challenges, and breeze through challenges that a younger soul finds insurmountable, and struggle only when the road turns vertical or leaning backwards! This also affects relationships, to which they start creating more and more trouble just to see how big obstacles they can clear in order to be together.

There are lifetimes when we choose to have it easy. We meet our loved ones at an early age and just fall in love and spend our entire lives making love to the most amazing person we know. Then we get bored and want to test what kind of an obstacle we can clear out of the way in order to be together. Separation is nothing but our wish to show each other how much we love them – or as younger souls would have it: challenge our  lover to prove their love for us. The Ancients have already proven their love for each other in so many ways that proof is no longer required (there’s hardly any jealousy involved for one thing because they take each other for granted at the same time as they can’t logically believe their heart knows) but the challenges are different kind.

The challenges, however, are partly self-invited, and partly a result of a simple falling into a pattern due to external pressure and societal norms. One of our greatest challenges is to re-teach ourselves to live authentically as who we are – without allowing anyone else define who we are as individuals. We are all different, and therefore everyone’s True Emotion Mirror is different, therefore it is the worst idea ever to try and fit a certain “datable” or “marriable” role when you are trying to attract YOUR True Emotion Mirror – and that fear of not being “the right way” being the way that you are is going to drive your True Emotion Mirror away from you because they don’t like you parlor trained, they want you raw and free the way that you are. Political correctness, holistic lifestyle, or turning to New Age in hopes to find your way back to your True Emotion Mirror if you are born a rebel is not going to be helpful to you but an inauthentic way of being that will only turn your True Emotion Mirror foul at you – even if your New Age guides will tell you that “they are simply not as evolved as you are” once they reject you. No. That is not why – they reject you because you are trying to fit into someone else’s clothes and someone else’s ideals.

As our circumstances change through lifetimes we react to things differently. Depending on how we were in a previous lifetime with our True Emotion Mirror(s), we react to them differently upon our first meeting in this lifetime. That is why not all soulmate experiences are directly comparable, and one size doesn’t fit all.

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