True Emotion Mirrors (intro)

Technically speaking, True Emotion Mirrors are a part of the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology that I wrote to replace and improve on the Twin Flame concept that speaks of at least 3 different types of connections under the same heading, depending on which teacher you speak to, and which New Age “follower” (a contradiction in terms) you speak with. I wanted to differentiate my theory from the Twin Flame concept for the sake of clarity, but also to enable me to make a clear difference in these 3 types of soul bonds that have found their way under the same heading due to the fact New Age has no unified belief system or dogma, and therefore no way of enforcing what people write about under what term.

Although the fact New Age is a free-form belief system is a great thing, it can cause problems in situations such as this. So I decided to use my own terminology instead of trying to convince the Twin Flame community that my view is right and their view is wrong, and only THAT section of people gets to call their Twin Flames twin flames. In addition, I wanted to make sure I knew for sure I know what I’m talking about before sticking my spoon into that stew like so many other people have done with very dubious sources to their information and colored motivations to teaching it in the first place.

Obviously, you should take my views with a grain of salt, too, but I am trying to marry logic, intuition, psychology, and empathy to create the theory, and I know so many people in the spiritual community feel logic and love or spirituality cannot go together, but that’s simply because it takes quite a high IQ to keep up with the logic of emotion. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist! It exists, and it is very much humanly identifiable… And not one ounce of it loses romanticism by studying it. (Unless you’re into diving blind, and if that’s how you do your thing, you shouldn’t seek clarity and you DEFINITELY shouldn’t allow yourself muddle the waters for those who seek clarity and understanding of what is going on in their romantic lives.)

True Emotion Mirrors

Although the Soulmate Typology contains over a couple of dozen definitions for different types of Soulmates, I’ll only introduce the most important one; the True Emotion Mirror. In addition, there are two more definitions that everyone who has a romantic bone in their body and knows it’s possible to get trapped into the wrong relationship out of the feeling of responsibility or loss of faith in true love should register for the rest of it. If you don’t think permanence is more important than the quality of the relationship, then that means you, so you don’t fall into that relationship trap ever again and can help people you know from falling into it, too. Anyway.

True Emotion Mirrors are the highest possible soulmate. They are, what is often described as Twin Flames (first time meeting) times a thousand – that same connection lived through over and over and over in countless of lifetimes. That doesn’t make the connection simple, but more to the point, you’ve been cooking in such hot waters, that you’ve gotten traumatized losing each other, winding up in the abusive hands of someone who looks like your True Emotion Mirror only to fear the face of your TrEmoR when you see it again – and countless of other ways you can get scared to death of finding them again – not to mention finding them and then losing them again after a few blissfully happy moments.

Theory difference

Twin Flames are described by the feeling that you’ve met your other half and that you are a part of the same soul, but that has been made literal in the Twin Flame concept. In the Twin Flame concept, you have no control over who you fall in love with, but you fall like a robot to your own half, and essentially the whole idea would be just an emotional masturbation session. Your hand in love with your other hand. Not cool. Although that connection EXISTS, it is somewhat of a practice round to real relationships between two or more different people with independent minds, freedom of choice, that they use to bond together – out of free will, out of true love for one another, with every freedom of choosing someone else if they’d want to – but True Emotion Mirrors feel, about each other, that there is nobody else in this world that they’d rather spend their eternity with… and that’s nothing to scoff at.

This connection is both the most fragile there is, and completely… Safe. Because of who you both/all are, you are drawn to each other like magnets, by the very essence of your soul. STILL, you are not locked together, and you have the freedom of changing into whatever else you want to change into… Just that why would you if you enjoy the way you are as it is? Also, True Emotion Mirrors tend to change together, you evolve together, but the connection is not enforced by any spiritual force or authority, unlike Spousal Spirit Mirrors (often interpreted as Twin Flames) which is akin to an arranged marriage on a spiritual level – supported by the community but not necessarily welcomed by the partners themselves.

Finding yourself will align you with your True Emotion Mirrors

True Emotion Mirror is, also, potentially polygamous. (I use the -gamy term because this is a marriage-like bond between potentially more than two people.) That information helps you understand the rest of this point: By finding out what you truly love about life, romance, your sexuality, your friends, your work etc helps you know your True Emotion Mirror better. The better you know yourself, the better you know your True Emotion Mirror, because they are your perfect match. Whenever you feel yourself compromising or doing something to please a lower connection soulmate, you move further away from your True Emotion Mirror. Disloyalty toward your own happiness is disloyalty toward your True Emotion Mirror, as well. Whatever you don’t accept about yourself, you also automatically reject in your True Emotion Mirror – because your authentic selves are perfectly harmonious… Even in the love of disharmony.

You’re so perfectly adjusted to each other – out of the joy of figuring out how to live together, that you’re kind of spoiled for everyone else. The longer you’ve been together reincarnationally speaking, the quirkier your relationship wishes may be, and the more impossible you are to please by other people, the harder it is for you to find the perfect relationship – because you have already experienced the thrill of complete connection, and you’ll always feel deprived and short-changed when you’re not getting the same thing in your relationship to your True Emotion Mirror. Your soup (sexual group) is so perfectly spiced to your liking, that NOBODY else will really do, no matter how long or hard you try.

If you are always displeased or feeling unfulfilled even in the most healthy-looking relationships, it is more than likely because you have a True Emotion Mirror out there somewhere but you’ve fallen into the trap of trying to be sensible and settle for something reasonable… And FUCKING BORING!

True Emotion Mirror theory starts unraveling your TrEmoR code by your sexual desires

Granted, if you don’t find sexuality interesting, then my theory can do very little for you because I spend so much time dissecting different sexual spices and modalities different soups enjoy – just to help you put your finger on it and ANNOUNCE yourself to your potential True Emotion Mirrors – even the new ones if you’re a part of a larger soup open for new recruits so to speak. (True Emotion Mirrors can and will, at times, change groups… Upgrade, therefore, the race to keep your True Emotion Mirror happy is always on, and ah so exciting! Stealing a True Emotion Mirror (and Twin Flame even though they don’t want to admit or think about it) is technically possible, yes.)

Having said that, whatever your soup is into, if your kicks come from the very rejection of sexuality, then you must be faithful to that because your True Emotion Mirrors will feel the same way about it. However, the point of True Emotion Mirrors is that EVERYONE in the relationship enjoys whatever ike their TrEmoRs put them under – and this is not to be confused with outsiders trying to push their way in for whatever reason – and these reasons will be discussed further on the inside pages.

In addition to sexuality, whatever else you’re into, your True Emotion Mirrors will have a complimenting aspect to provide. For instance, we want to solve all the mysteries of the Universe, both spiritually and physically. And just as we are running out of tools, we find the sexiest quantum physicist of the right alignment to give us the rest of the answers – or at least giving it a good Aussie go! (He’s not Australian, but I love the expression.)

The point being, the more you know about what YOU WANT, the more you know what your True Emotion Mirror wants. Denying yourself is denying your True Emotion Mirror. Go after what you want, and you will work for the future with your True Emotion Mirror(s). (This also works in plain logic; if you’re perfect for someone, then arranging your perfect life is also arranging your life perfectly for your true love regardless of who that is identity-wise… As in what name is in their driver’s license, as you might not know that yet.)

While that maybe well enough to get a good start on realigning your life path to align with your True Emotion Mirror’s, you might want to register for more clues to follow.

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