True Emotion Mirrors that crawl in love…

I firmly believe True Emotion Mirrors are an INCREDIBLY highly bonded soulmates rather than a literal 2 halves of the same soul. I believe that they came together yonks ago and keep returning to each other making the bond more and more intense each life they live together. But there’s a first time for everything.

I sometimes compare the True Emotion Mirror mating ritual as if it was a walk through Mordor. You have to know the entire route to the center of Mordor and survive the walk… Some of us has taken that walk a few times in previous lifetimes, whereas others have never made it all the way to the center for a reason or another. (Sometimes we’ve blown up a few bridges, making using the old map… difficult if not useless.) That changes the way events progress…

The True Emotion Mirrors that fall in love at an instant have been in each other’s center already, they know what’s there, they’ve been there a million times and they still want back in, because being outside of the True Emotion Mirror is like having been cast out of the paradise, but to find the paradise, there’s Mordor to cross… So not entirely simple. However, this post is not about them. This post is about the True Emotion Mirrors who have never yet found their way through.

To them… EACH step is new. Their idea of what is love may be very shallow, very… “porn”. The first few times these True Emotion Mirrors meet won’t go in too deep at all. They remain on the outer edges of their relationship, satisfied with looking into the paradise rather than actually trying to find their way all the way into it. Their Mordor is also narrower, but scary as any of them. Everything is a little less… Big. They look at the older True Emotion Mirrors in horror and would want none of what they’re having. Their relationship looks crazy and immature, but if you want to survive Mordor, you cannot expect to dance through it… Unless you’re really, really experienced!

Once the new True Emotion Mirrors get encouraged enough to attempt to go all the way into the other, they’ll take things SLOW. Unfortunately, the current “dating scene” doesn’t support slow, but ALL True Emotion Mirrors need to take things slow, even those who fall in love at the first sight – but that’s another kind of slow and I’ll write about it another time. The newly discovered True Emotion Mirrors avoid each other a lot in the beginning. They are interested but pretend disinterest. They’re coy, try to avoid commitment, tend to rely on their same-sex best friend a lot more than their True Emotion Mirror, they use any and all support network and tool to get them safely into the relationship. They are insecure to the bone, and may even openly admit being so. They feel they need all the help they can get, while the older True Emotion Mirrors simply want everyone else to butt out so they can balance easier and find their way back together, because it’s not exactly easy for them, either, and the less outsiders get involved, the better for them. Their form of slow, thus, would be to keep others away from their relationship until they’re rock solid in their love.

New True Emotion Mirrors are also a little less tricky. It seems that the more times the same person travels through the Mordor, they chip away the edges of the path, create traps and lures for others to get stuck in, and gradually encrypt the place so that NOBODY will walk into it after them, unless their True Emotion Mirror, “the Paradise” will start mending bridges and pathways for others to enter through themselves.

The way to identify a new, young True Emotion Mirror and the old, is that each knows what they want out of love, and no matter how much they want to convince the other that their kind is better, they’ll never truly change the other type’s mind, the only thing that may happen, is that the other types convince the other that “they MUST agree to this” or that “they CAN’T HAVE what they want”.

And the commitment type of love that starts with a simple agreement to stick together forever is NEITHER type still… But can develop into it in time… Should one wish it to.

The key element for all love is instinct and trust in it. We all KNOW what we’re after, but other’s opinions tend to push us off the course. To find enough self-confidence to trust one’s own instinct would be the most important thing for any person, a True Emotion Mirror or otherwise.

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