Trust your instinct, when your partner is “just friends” with someone and you don’t like it.

The thing is, we are not jealous in the same way or for the same things. You have the right to your feelings, but remember, so do your partner and their friend.

What I mean by this is that we can well be in ill-fitting relationships, and you may not like your boyfriend having a ton of girlfriends or your girlfriend having a ton of boyfriends, even if to them, that’s perfectly natural and normal. People with polyandrous, polygynous, and polygynandrous leanings will react very differently to their partner’s friends, even if nobody did anything wrong, per se.

Also, note that SOME PEOPLE think that the ‘superior’ friend ‘points out’ a good marital prospect by flirting with someone specific so that their less capable friend would know who to go to. It is a good thing to know that a friend of yours may be hitting on the person you want, honestly thinking you tried to point them out to them.

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