Try not to show displeasure, it’s catnip for those who love you for suffering

There are people who believe that those who suffer the most deserve the most love. They also believe that being loved will ultimately make people happy, and that the most worthy of people cannot be loved enough to make them happy enough not to kill themselves, and they are, thus, the most worthy, the most loved, the most adored; the stars who take their own lives because they suffer so.

They believe that displeasure is a sign that someone needs more and more and more love, when, in fact, it has no link to it in the mind of a Savants*, yet, in the mind of the Normal Person*, it is begging for love and affection. Therefore, there’s a cycle: A Normal Person* needs love, they fake depression, they get love, and perk up, feel happy for a while, then need love and attention again, so they get depressed etc. An the Savants* tends to leave the Normal Person* if they are unhappy, because they feel they are the reason for their unhappiness, therefore if they’ll leave, the Normal Person* will be happy again.

However, if a Savants* feels unhappy in their lives, the Normal Person* who IS the cause of their unhappiness, will just try and get closer and closer and closer – needier and needier and needier, depleting the Savants* further. An the Savants* is prone to emphasizing his or her unhappiness to the Normal Person*, hoping they’d get the hint and let them find something that HAS A POTENTIAL of making them happy, but the Normal Person* is insisting they are the key to the Savants*’s happiness, it’s just that the poor the Savants* cannot BELIEVE he or she is loved by them.

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