What are Precious Soulmates*?
A Precious Soulmate* is a person who is equally close soul mate to you than a Full soulmate, but whom you do not have a sexual connection with. This is the most peculiar type of relationship to find especially between opposite (or preferred) gender friends, because you will find NO sexual chemistry, but you feel like you have known them ALWAYS from the instant you meet them. They are like brothers or sisters who you just have forgotten about but they’re there and you feel like you could quite comfortably stretch out on their sofa and have a nap half an hour after meeting them for the first time, because you feel so comfortable around them. (Maybe not quite, but you get the idea!) The only thing stopping you would be simple etiquette, although you’d feel right at home with them (especially in a house hold with all Precious Soulmates*) you’d still want to behave. It is impossible to mistake them for True Emotion Mirror (if you know what they are), but people often mistake them for True Emotion Mirrors in an advanced stage, when they believe that sex does not belong in an evolved life style. The lack of sexual desire, even when you would consider the person physically beautiful to perfection, is staggering! There is absolutely NOTHING going on between you and a Precious Soulmate* sexually, but everything else works like breathing. There is no discomfort, no disagreement about whether or not to have sexual relations, it is quite obviously clear that you two are bond forever, but if the clothes would come off, you’d either be completely comfortable with that like children, but still without attraction, but most likely you’d feel a bit funny about it, but definitely not turned on. If you are unsure whether someone is a Kundalini soulmate or not, they cannot be a Precious Soulmate*. This is the EASIEST type of soulmate to identify, due to the complete lack of sexual chemistry and the over-powering feeling of unity otherwise. (The other sexual soulmate is a Buffer soulmate, that may have some sexual chemistry and a relative ease in interaction, but with a Buffer soulmate there is SOME friction and difficulty to find a mutual life goal.) Kundalini and Precious Soulmates* will find it very easy to know why they were brought together – their life goals are the same, and they will instantly find mutual interests and a hunger to work together on something.
The female Precious Soulmate* to you would feel like the ideal mother or sister, and the male Precious Soulmate* would be the ideal father or brother (brother, more to the point, they are often easier to relate to; Precious Soulmates* are often born following the mother, while the father can often be from a different soul group, making him a little awkward match in the family). You do feel the need for physical closeness, but there is no sexual feelings attached to it. You could hold each other for a prolonged period of time, with no discomfort, apart from the inevitable thought of “what the hell is this?!” (In case of a non-related person.)
An interesting in-between soulmate happens, when a person who you find a core-mirror like bond with, but know you wouldn’t really have sex with them because they are of your non-preferred gender. This is where we are entering muddy waters, because you might not be entirely aware of all your (past life) kinks! If you find yourself in any way sexually attracted to a person with a core/kundalini level of intensity, they are a Full soulmate or a Buffer soulmate, but never a Precious Soulmate*. So, I’ll repeat some: A Precious Soulmate* is NEVER sexually attractive to you. A Buffer soulmate is someone who you find sometimes sexually attractive, but there is also friction between you that stems from something other than the intense feeling of NEEDING to be with them but somehow being unable to, that is characteristic to Kundalinis. Both Full soulmate and Precious Soulmates* are people who you find an absolute, unquestionable love towards, they cannot do wrong in your eyes, with the difference that the Precious Soulmate* is completely non-sexual to you.
As confusing as Buffer and (potential) True Emotion Mirror can be, the Precious Soulmates* are easy to identify.
Comparison chart
Kundalini | Potential Kundalini | Core | Buffer* | ‘other’ | |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
Feeling of unity | Intense | Strong | Intense | Good at arms length (slightly reserved, but generally comfortable) | None |
Sexual attraction | Intense | Intrigue | Absolutely None | Possibly some to preferred gender only | Mild or none |
First sight recognition | Immediate and startling “bolt of lightning” | Intrigue / curiosity “eye catching” | Immediate and strong | Familiarity and ease | Stranger |
Love | “I want to swim in you” | “I think I want to swim in you” | “I want to swim in you” | “I like you. You’re cool.” | Appreciation or none at all |
Hate | “I want fucking kill you” | “I hate you” | Hard to imagine | “Go away. I don’t fucking like you.” | Dislike (towards a stranger) |
Future | Can be difficult to trust this level of passion: Feels too good to be true. | Can develop into a Full soulmate with relative ease. | Easiest thing in the world to find a common future, but you’re not tied to them: You’ll pick up where you left off after years of breaks in communication. | Can develop into a Core or Kundalini, but possibly not in this life time due to persisting compatibility issues. | Nothing worth mentioning in this life time nor the near following. |
*) In all honesty I am not entirely sure if Buffer soulmates are just more undeveloped than Potential Kundalini and Core -connections, or do they automatically stay where they are.
To this question I have received an answer from a higher source that sounds logical: As your soul age, you first bond with the closest likeness of your Kundalini and Precious Soulmates*, the ones that are most like you. Then, you start finding connections and grow with each soulmate until you are so experienced, that you can bond with or relate to most anyone at an increasingly high level. At this stage everyone starts to feel like a potential Kundalini or Precious Soulmate*, and it gets harder and harder to make a clear difference between people who you love and those you do not love.
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*) Term changed after this post was originally written. Fractions of old terms may exist elsewhere in the post. Read about term updates.
**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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