What are True Emotion Mirrors (aka. Twin Flames) and what does they have to do with your love life?

A True Emotion Mirror is a concept of a perfect romantic match for any given person (sometimes called ‘a Twin Flame’, although the terms are not directly interchangeable). Always either a pair of two or a group of several people, NEVER an individual alone. (In other words, you can’t be a True Emotion Mirror or a non-True Emotion Mirror, if you are a human being, you are also automatically SOMEBODY’S True Emotion Mirror, but the question remains, whose?) You may not have met your True Emotion Mirror, and it is possible you won’t meet them in this lifetime, but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist or that you cannot actively do something about meeting them or not meeting them.

The term True Emotion Mirror refers to a pair of people who can look at each other with the deepest of scrutiny, with wide-open eyes, and find NOTHING they don’t love. They may sometimes feel SCARED of what they see, (namely “if this is true, I’ll lose you”) but the closer they look, the more they fall in love with each other, rather than the other way around. With EVERY OTHER type of soul connection, a closer look will reveal something that doesn’t sit quite right, something ‘nagging’ or displeasing. The only romantic soul-connection that is fully love-filled is that of a True Emotion Mirror.

Precious Soulmates are nearly there

A Precious Soulmate is a connection VERY CLOSE TO a True Emotion Mirror, with the difference, that your IDEAL connection is NOT a romantic or day-to-day connection. The love is full, complete, and healing, but you’re not ideally suited for such a close intimate relationship as you are with a True Emotion Mirror as adults. Precious Soulmates are often your children or parents, but not automatically so. Ideally, they are your best, closest friends and your most valued colleagues and work partners… Again, obviously not automatically so, but ideally so.

Magic

The True Emotion Mirror connection is not the only connection that has some supernatural elements, but it certainly has some. Telepathy is common, sharing dreams, an ability to “see into the mind of the other” when together or separate. A wordless, effortless understanding is typical, but actual True Emotion Mirrors can also misunderstand each other quite severely, due to the “men and women” narrative, where you interpret each other as a member of your respective genders rather than unique individuals perfectly capable of gender-atypical thinking and attitudes.

Why the theory?

The main motivation for writing the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is the fact that highly attractive people are often spoken out of their faith of true love, because they are highly desired partners, and “everybody” wants to convince them to lower their expectations for romantic relationships to something that regular people can provide them with. This is not to say that True Emotion Mirror -relationships were reserved for highly sought after people alone, but that the theory is most useful for people who have more suitors than they know what to do with – a tool to protect them from cynicism and loss of belief that the love they want exists, and that they don’t have to lower their expectations for a partner to experience true love.

A swipe of vinegar

The reason why many people resist the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology’s theories is that the people who have thus far been able to insist others to lower their expectations for them, now face the world where THEY have to lower their own expectations for a partner. Having said that, nobody has ever met their True Emotion Mirror and been indifferent toward them, so these people now have to practice what they preach and see the beauty in people who are NOT necessarily red carpet ready…

The theory begins with the expectation and assumption, that True Emotion Mirrors are very much each other’s equals (in all ways that matter to them both) and love each other with the same absolute devotion.

The Birth of True Emotion Mirror connection

The theoretical base for the True Emotion Mirror connection comes in two parts:

1. Initial, base-line compatibility through one’s own individual value system; you both authentically value the same things the same way – you both believe “the world is right” similarly. (Male-female roles, for instance, the question of physical beauty, intelligence, what you both find admirable, moral, and exciting both sexually and otherwise.)
2. As a result of a mutual wish to stay and live together the bond deepens as you develop your mutual ideals and ideas about life as a couple or a group (soup¹). The connection deepens and gets more specific and detailed over time over several lifetimes.

How to find your True Emotion Mirror?

There is more than one potential True Emotion Mirror for every individual in this world. From the potential, develops a real True Emotion Mirror connection. LOOKING for your True Emotion Mirror is not really what you should be doing to find them. What you should be focused on is PREPARING YOURSELF for the connection. This means that you will work toward becoming your ideal person – your TRUE ideal person you wish to become AND STAY AS for an eternity. Your ideal person must be one you ENJOY being, and genuinely want to be for as long as you can.

You’ll find your True Emotion Mirror through your own true ideals. Your meeting point is where you’re happy with and proud of who you are. You cannot truly find your True Emotion Mirror if you don’t love who you are, for a variety of reasons too complicated to go through in one introductory post. The quickest reason to explain that is that if you don’t love who you are, your True Emotion Mirror’s remarks of your true person will sound like insults, not like love. You’ll feel continually insulted rather than loved. If you love to hear truthful statements about yourself, you’re on the right path to finding your True Emotion Mirror, and then it’s more or less just a question of finding a person who means their truthful remarks about you as a compliment rather than an insult; someone whose ideals matches yours.

We sometimes get stuck with people who try to insult us but we hear their remarks as compliments and love when they truly don’t mean it that way…

Another key step is letting go of connections to people who are NOT your True Emotion Mirrors or your Precious Soulmates. You need to accept yourself the way you truly ENJOY being. You don’t need to be a perfect person, you just need to enjoy being who you are. You also need to accept the fact not everybody enjoys your way of being or being in your company, and let those people go enjoy their life in another way in other company. All will be well.

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