What does “common people’s” love feel like?

Geniuses like to tell each other love stories in the movies about special someone’s unique people who are right for each other alone. The Savants* love that because they love feeling special for someone unique like themselves. But what a genius finds difficult to understand is the way normal people couple up and why they… What do they even get out of it?

An everyday person falls in love with a choice to love some random age and sexual orientation -appropriate single person who they ran into at the country fair. They find SOMEONE rather than someone special. To them, having someone is quite magical enough. They choose to stand by this one, even though this one isn’t particularly unique or even a good one in comparison to another.

Everyday people find the kind of luck or a chance of finding someone rather charming in itself… The very randomness of their choice of a lover is what charms them as much as it puts off the Savants*. The love that is shown by the very function of staying with them is what charms them. They also often equate forgiving another’s flaws as a sign of love – whereas a Savants* would feel that if you see a trait of mine as a “flaw,” you don’t truly love me at all. The Savants* know they’re not perfect, but they wish to be perfect for someone similarly flawed.

In this light, the division point between a narcissist and a healthy person is whether they will allow the other type to love and be loved the way and for the reason they want to or not.

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