What does the “intensity” mean in True Emotion Mirror descriptions?

Although when True Emotion Mirrors fight, they truly fight, this doesn’t mean that if you fight a lot that makes you True Emotion Mirrors. (That would be awful.) The only exception to this rule is that you both TRULY ENJOY fighting, but most often, and especially if you wish the fighting would stop, it simply means you and this person (who may or may not be your True Emotion Mirror) don’t understand each other at this moment.

Arguing means that you are not in agreement.

If the arguing is in a relationship that is not a True Emotion Mirror, or Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* relationship, the person who is deeper in love here feels the arguing is healthy and tells about the strength of the bond. The person who is less in love, or not at all in love, feels the arguing is a fight for freedom.

Some people interpret arguing and anger for “caring”. Others feel it is the opposite of it. Both views are correct depending on the person you’re arguing with. Just because a person is arguing with you, they may not see the reason for the arguing the same way. For instance, one person may find the argument entertaining and fun, while the other is completely exhausted and fed up with it. This has nothing to do with a True Emotion Mirror relationship if one person is not having fun fighting.

What the word intensity means in this context

The intensity is present in EVERYTHING that you do with your True Emotion Mirror. You are intensely in love. You are intensely attracted to each other. You are intensely in agreement, you are intense friends, you are intensely focused on each other. All emotions, particularly the ones stemming from intense admiration and adoration of the other, are heightened.

As a result, also the feelings of fear of rejection or abandonment (not in the beginning tho, as they’re too good for you anyway), fear of not being enough for this person, fear of them making fun of you when they’re not, all of that is exaggerated as well. However, if the fighting NEVER STOPS it’s a really bad sign, and it means the other person just wants out. They want out so badly, they don’t even care how much they have to hurt you to do it.

By the way, if you must fight in a relationship to keep the emotions high, you’re kidding yourself to think that’s love.

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