What if your True Emotion Mirror relationship seems stalled in telepathic state?

How do you feel about it? Are you bored with each other? Did you all find someone else?

Listen, True Emotion Mirrors are not a is not or is -thing the same way as Twin Flames are. In the sense that there needs to be a deep attraction and whatnot to BE a True Emotion Mirror, they are, but it is much more a slider than what Twin Flame -concept thinks they are. So if you want to move on, move on. If that’s not what you’re asking, let’s move on. 😉

Stuck in an argument (but don’t want to be)?

Ask them: What do you need from me? And when they answer, listen. Believe they’re telling you the truth. It may not make sense to you, and that’s fine, ask for more information because you don’t understand.

ALSO believe them if they say they don’t want you anymore. It may be true, and that this is their final answer. It’s a great lesson in life to learn when you just have to accept a no as a no.

They seem to be stuck in an ass-kissing mode, dodging questions and making empty promises.

TrEmoRs in spirit are much the same as people in real life. Treat them as people, but in this case, the TrEmoR seems to be going through the motions and is only half-interested in you.

Ask them why they’re acting weird. Tell them they shouldn’t treat you like an obligation.

If they can’t really explain well or refuse to answer, let them go. The Universe will likely organize a meeting for you anyway. Then you’ll see what it’ll feel like.

They keep falling asleep on you.

This is actually in reverse; a in-spirit TrEmoR asks about his in-flesh TrEmoR, what if she keeps falling asleep during meditation when we’re talking? Bad sign?

I personally respond to pleasure, comfort, and safety like a baby… I fall asleep. 😀 I used to nod at the dinner table as a teen whenever my mom cooked my favorite meal. 😀 I don’t think it’s boredom but a sense of calm and comfort and love of the sound of your voice.

Also, when asleep, you can keep talking and discuss on a level that is not available in awakened state. Light sleep is very productive. Keep talking in other words, just be mindful of the bridge – where a person is falling asleep, and can start talking like an American in a dentist’s chair. (We don’t do gas at the dentists. We get pain med injections into the gums, FYI.)

This is somewhat of a real issue: They prefer a non-physical relationship.

Sometimes closet homosexuals, or people who can’t fairly be called “closet” because they haven’t realized this themselves yet, typically women, prefer the spiritual relationship over the physical. They can have the cherries off the top so to speak, but don’t, truly, want a physical relationship.

If you bring up sex, they dodge it or scold you for being “just a guy” or “too human” or whatever… This is a bad sign.

Due to lesbianism not being even known until very recently, and due to us being brainwashed into believing women don’t want sex the same way as men do, women may just not notice there’s something missing from this equation. She may also be a young soul without a strong sexual side, and this might be what I call a Spousal Spirit Mirror -connection rather than a True Emotion Mirror connection.

This spirit keeps saying they’re my True Emotion Mirror (or twin flame) and I’m just not feeling it.

This is another situation with a cause for concern… However, try and pin-point what you don’t like about them. Tell them, too. They may just square their shoulders and you’re good. (Quite literally.) Do this especially if you can’t see a logical reason for not liking them. Pin-point exactly why not. It maybe literal “Oh I didn’t know you wanted it that way” -fixed!

Other.

Tons of ways and reasons for a TrEmoR relationship to seem stuck. Don’t force yourself into it or out of it, and don’t force them, either. If it’s a real connection, you’ll find a way into it, if not… It’ll dissolve. Challenge it, test it, talk to each other. Figure it out.

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