What is the intended strategy of annoying a person to make a friend with them?

There are people who make an entry into your life by being the biggest pain in your ass they can be. This strategy assumes, that when you’re annoyed, you will instruct them exactly what you want them to do in order to please them and thus, to be their friend. This is a good enough strategy IF there IS a way into that person’s heart. However, not all people are compatible, they may be profoundly incompatible, for example, one person is heteroplatonic, as in makes friends with the opposite gender alone, and the other person is homoplatonic. Then, the homoplatonic person is wasting their time trying to make their way into the inner-most circle of a heteroplatonic person.

There is a point where a person should stop trying to annoy another person and accept there is no way in. This doesn’t always happen until the relationship is destroyed completely, or the person finds a way to please their target, but finds that EVEN THAT isn’t enough to make them into a real friend.

Usually, giving people enough attention is so flattering, that if there’s any interest in the target’s mind, it’s usually enough for anything the chaser might want, EVEN IF the compatibility was only partial.

It is to be noted, that full 10 -people are the target of this strategy so often that they tend to be much more annoyed by it than inspired or flattered by the attention. They may be more than amazed to be treated normally, from a position of a confident equal, however… Even when that said equality was only a figment of imagination in the chaser’s narcissistic mind.

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