What is the Purpose of the Telepathic State of the True Emotion Mirror Relationship?

If you are experiencing telepathy with your true love in spirit, which is surprisingly common, in a way that you are constantly connected to each other on the spirit level and aware of it, you’ve got stuff to figure out. You have a relationship issue you need to sort out, and your tools have been provided for you in spirit.

There may be a bad habit you need to break to give your relationship a fighting chance; it may be an interfering relationship or an attitude, a hangup, or a misunderstanding of a catastrophic magnitude. There maybe a gender stereotype that needs breaking, and now is the time. There may be mistrust that should be cleared out, or you both/all think you are doing something to please the other when you both want the same thing… Or something. There is something that would ruin your relationship quite predictably if you were to come together now.

DO NOT GUESS, however, research each other. Talk to each other. Don’t ask OTHER PEOPLE as much as you should ask each other.

To get to the bottom of it, I would first start with the following questions:

What is your primary relationship?

To you, personally, as an isolated individual affected by nobody’s opinion about it, which relationship gives you the most joy in life? Rush not to answer “my children” for the benefit of your children. They might not benefit from being your primary relationship. Some do, but for the sake of your children, be honest. Your (true) children most likely feel the same way about it, considering they’re your (true) children.

You should answer this question in theory rather than consider the currently available people in your life. Which relationship do you still dream about and find to be missing, if that applies? What type of connection do you crave for and NEED for you to feel fulfilled and joyful in life? THIS is your primary relationship, regardless of who you currently know and have met.

Your primary relationship is your individual preference.

Your options include but are not limited to your friends, family, co-workers, casual lovers, your sexual relationship, your romantic relationship (or those combined). If you know my soulmate definitions, you could use them to decide which one is the most important one. To the Ravens*, the primary relationship is usually their True emotional mirror (s). To the Young Soul*, it tends to be their relationship with their parents, followed closely by siblings and friends.

In regards to your children, do you wish YOUR parents would think YOU are their most important life partner, or would you rather consider that to be a major inconvenience in your life? The chances are your children feel the same way about you, so, don’t worry if your answer is different.

Everything else must revolve around that relationship.

Now, once you know which relationship is your #1 priority, you must adjust everything else to that. Nothing else can come in between you and your Primary Relationship. This includes your children. Don’t worry, they will find their place and the right dynamic which will lead to happiness for all of you.

The scariest thing about True Emotion Mirrors is that your dreams are 100% in sync. Because we are mostly surrounded by Trail Companions*, the message we get constantly is that “your way of doing life and love is wrong. Adjust, change, improve.” With True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates the message is “reveal who you truly are and be loved for all of your wrongs.” THAT is what you’re doing in your telepathic state; revealing to each other who and what you truly are and want.

Breaking bonds and creating new ones.

Not all of your soulmate relationships are positive and there to be rescued. Some are there because you keep letting them be against your better judgment. You have chosen convenience and the easy way out of things so often, that you’ve started fostering relationships that you shouldn’t have. This is a relationship issue if it comes in the way of your Primary Relationship. Everything else must give way to your Primary Relationship, or it is a relationship issue.

Every new bond you create must service the Primary Relationship. Every bond that doesn’t, must go away or be resolved so it will serve the Primary Relationship.

If someone in your soulmate group has a different theoretical primary relationship, especially if you consider them your primary but they do not, or vice versa, you cannot remain connected. That relationship must come to it’s end.

An example.

After this, what your actual relationship issue is, is very individual. For me and my Primary Relationship, my True Emotion Mirrors, the problem is that my counterparts do not trust themselves to know how to please me. To fix this, they ask other women for help and tips and tricks. This doesn’t work, because I’m very much NOT LIKE them. My TrEmoRs want to “honor me” the same way as they’d honor a standard woman, but I’m not a standard woman. I cannot be honored in that way. I feel simply bored and boxed up, stereotyped and forced into a mould, not honored or respected.

I’ve told them a million times not to listen to these women, but they keep thinking I don’t understand that the women are trying to help. I keep pointing out “trying” is the operative word here, not “helping”, and that they have to stop thinking of me in the same terms as these other women.

When they finally understood it, they felt themselves very uneasy. They’re conditioned to think that men have to give up on their wishes and natural sex drive and other things in order to please the woman. But to make their dreams come true, they should unleash themselves and trust that whatever is their way of doing things is also the way I want it done. In order to make my dreams come true, they have to make their own dreams come true. True Emotion Mirrors are perfect counterparts, and their dreams match 100%. It’s scary, when most of your relationship experiences come from courting Trail Companions*, who always require inauthentic expression to work to the level they do, and never work to perfection.

KEY: Do you want to do it?

The key to understanding your True Emotion Mirrors and your Precious Soulmates but not anybody else is the question: “Do I want it to be that way or another way?”

Your selfish, self-serving answer is always right with the True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates, but not always with others. If you are struggling with your morals, your conscience, trying to do the right thing by your TrEmoRs and Precious Soulmates, the seemingly selfish answer is the right answer. You don’t have to TRUST it without asking them, but it is, 100% of the time the right thing with your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates, otherwise you will have to keep looking for a better match, because this connection doesn’t qualify for this level of a soulmate type.

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