What successful business people rarely know about The Law of The Truest Wish

The people who have THE MOST TROUBLE getting up on their own feet in business are people (women especially) born to very comfortable, loving, caring middle to high income families who value safety and 9-5 jobs. The reason for this is that there is NO NEED for the children to take risks, and their parents are ALWAYS on the look out for any needless danger or calamity that might come to the family. Growing up in a family where you also never had to ask or work for anything, but everything was handed out to you on a platter is a problem. You essentially have to teach yourself everything from ground up, including how to think about business.

Many business gurus start their inspiring talks with the tale of woe; poor family, maybe abusive, nothing was ever given to them, they had nothing but tough luck… It is true, that this setting also breeds more of the same, but what is generally overlooked is the fact that if you have the drive to get out of there, nobody is going to stand in your way for long – because nobody cares. After all, there’s nowhere but up from here.

The case is different with gold spoon in their mouths kids. Their parents are doing everything in their power to stop their kids from making mistakes, and the best way to do that is to stop them from doing anything at all.

Now here’s the silver lining:

When you have a great life plan, you will be born in the best possible position to achieve that goal. When you have been placed in the most awful of situations (in relation to what you want to become) you will have to overcome all of those obstacles making you bigger and stronger than those said obstacles. This will simply explain why it will take you time to get where you are going, so hopefully it will lift some of the embarrassment relating to the “good start, no show” life.

No matter where you start, The Law of The Truest Wish will be something worth studying. On the other hand, you can take it as psychology, you carry yourself differently based on your beliefs and that sort of thing, but… Here is what I need to stress: If your LOTTW isn’t working for you, and you’re from a background like I describe, loving, scared parents behind you and all of that – this means that you are not the only one having powerful thoughts regarding to your future. It is different to go from: “He’ll never make it” to “Oh my God I am afraid he’ll do something huge and wind up getting too rich and on drugs!” Love has an incredible power to protect, even when the danger is completely imagined. It is also easier to fight against someone you hate or despise than it is to fight against the will of someone who you love and adore and want to protect by trying not to make your loved ones worried for you by taking unnecessary financial risks. Jealousy and envy are easy to combat in comparison to fearful, protective love. Nobody clings on you tighter than a mother worried sick.

An added bonus; as caring parents, they have read every child psychology book they could get their hands on to make sure they will give you the best possible start of life. This means that they have made every decision based on book learning rather than their instinct, including “giving you freedom” and “allowing you to test your wings” and what not. Even if they, in reality, have been dying for fear, they have emotionally clung onto you and blocking all dangers and risks out of your way (this also has an ANNOYING effect on  your sex and love life because all fun people are guided out of your way by your parents!!!) and when the risks go, also the opportunities go. There is very few opportunities that are completely risk free that are worth taking or even motivating to take. Hello safety, hello anti-depressives. So, as they have read this all in a book, they will never try and stop you physically, but they will cling every energy to you that screams “PLEASE DON’T!” As they never say anything, you can’t fight it out and get out of their grip, making your childhood last much longer than what it would if there was a need for an out and out battle. (If you’re the polite type and forgot to have a teenage rebellion, it might be a time for it now.)

If all obstacles require a good family, then why would someone like Tony Robbins settle for a poor family?

Poverty is a fun thing to overcome. It feels GOOD to be the one who rescues your entire family from poverty and to be able to buy your mother a house before you turn 20. It is hugely fun and addictive, and also gives you the highest rush. Therefore, the golden spoon people often sink to poverty on top of their other woes before they make it big, because it is such fun to overcome.

The added bonus is that you will be in the position of catapulting others out of their difficult situations because you have taken such a position in life, and clearly, this is what the man in question has done all his life. THAT is also fun, rewarding, and more than needed in this world.

Once you cue in on what you most want out of life, (and you are free to change your mind midway!) you can start tracking down the life events that are in place to make you exactly what you wanted to become. (And a tip for the bedtime: not only can you set LOTTW goals for this lifetime, you can also set them for thousands of years ahead if you like.)

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