Love is a wonderful thing. When it hits and you “go completely faggot” over someone as a friend of mine laughed. “I can’t even use another word, I went faggot for him, completely!” The funniest thing that had ever happened to him, a straight guy who met the childhood love of his True Emotion Mirror, and all he could do was to fall madly in love… With another man… In a second. “All I wanted to do was put on a dress and be pretty for him!” And nothing has changed.

It is that fast that your idea of your own sexuality can change at the sight of someone who is COMPLETELY RIGHT for you, even if you never knew someone of your own gender could be right for you. “Gay” just wasn’t a strong enough word anymore, the pleasure of his voice as he described the moment of his straight self-image shatter, he couldn’t have been more pleased. There was no more limiting self-respect left, no ego, no attempt or wish to be above it all, no pretense… Just a pure, true, pleasurable acknowledgement that he could easily love him and nobody but him for the rest of his life, and be whatever this man wanted him to be – even if that meant he had to be a girl for him.

And gently, lovingly, he was accepted… By another straight man, who had raised a devout Christian of a very tight wound church. One raised a Catholic, the other into a follower of Laestadianism, neither religion being open to homosexuality, but love, it asks no questions… (Initially!)

It is true that this didn’t happen in the physical, but in the non-physical space where everyone’s emotions are far more open, free to manifest, free to be expressed without as much of an ego as we tend to do in the physical realm – but that is, more or less, how it would have happened in the physical. Neither man turned all the way gay, bisexual would be the correct term, but when they are in each other’s energy field, there no need for a woman in there, and, it seems to me, not even room for their shared True Emotion Mirror… The energy is so intense.

Gay men, at the sight of their girl True Emotion Mirror will experience the same exact, unavoidable lightning bolt, if there is anything bent or straight in a person, the True Emotion Mirrors will bring it out.

That is why we can suddenly “turn gay” for someone, then, if that relationship breaks (and there are tons of reasons why it would, and none of them is because the love dwindles,) the gay-identity easily sticks. It doesn’t need to. You weren’t any less gay as you were before… Just that the people who you fall for are perfect for you no matter what their gender. It  needs not to be forced, sought after, explained… It just happens.

Beliefs that stifle true love

Love doesn’t disappear, but it can be blocked away, and people do that all the time. Monogamist beliefs are one major motivation to denying “the other side” because one wishes to keep to one partner, and bisexuals must choose the side.

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