When a person suffers – what each thinker type is after?

An Savant* thinker values personal freedom above all else. A healthy the Savants* thinker is a liberator, the person trying to give others enough space and opportunity to be themselves in the world; remove their limitations. When the Savants* thinker is suffering, they are demanding freedom from others and fighting to get away from people who try to hold them where they don’t wish to stay.

A Normal Person*thinker values unconditional love and lifelong relationships above all else. A healthy the Normal Person*thinker is giving unconditional love to everyone around them, giving homes to the homeless, nursing, and taking care of others. When the Normal Person*thinker suffers, they demand unconditional love from others and try to force others into nursing and taking care of them.

Outwardly, both fighting for one’s freedom and trying to force others to give unconditional love look spectacularly similar. The main difference is that the Savants* voice out, “Go away, leave me alone, mind your own god damned business.” the Normal Person* may argue over nothing specific hoping the noise they make signals they’re suffering and unconditional love is given to them to remedy that. Failing that, they may say: “Go away then, if you’re like that, if I’m too much of a loser for you, if you must be that selfish, if I’m too much trouble for you, if I’m not good enough for you…” The Normal Person*thinkers never assume they’d not be good enough for anyone they know because their love is unconditional, so they expect yours to be, too. This is what lands the Savants* into a situation where they’re screaming bloody murder: “Let me the fuck go…”

the Savants* turn into psycopaths, the Normal Person* turn into tyrants.

To get away from the people they don’t want to be connected to, the Savants* turn into psychopaths, who will distance themselves from all emotion, compassion, and empathy that would pull them back to the souls who love them unconditionally. THEY need to numb their conscience in order to pull themselves out of that soul bind. Sometimes this truly means serial killing and whatnot: “In your next lifetime, remember I killed you. Stay away.”

the Normal Person* turn into tyrants that try and control one person or everyone around them and force them not to leave them. They too can kill people to achieve this goal: “Next time, remember, if you try to leave me, I’ll kill you.”

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