When I kiss a normal person, I don’t think they even know *what* they are kissing.

This question was given to me through a psychic process to answer, and I have to say I would have NEVER thought to answer this without it. But I get it. I got to the feeling straight away and I must say “wow”. Not a great feeling.

The person asking is a female, and the person she’s kissing is a male, who feels… Shell-shocked, a little panicked, and emasculated by her success. He feels like he has nothing to offer her, and that’s why, although he likes her, and loves her, even, he feels he simply has nowhere to go with her. He cannot put his finger on what he’s doing here. He feels like a toy boy, the flavor of the month, maybe, her “wild ride on the wrong side of the river” or something. That’s what creates the disconnect. He’s going through the motions, trying to figure out what he is needed or wanted for.

Most men think they are in a woman’s life to pay for their life, to protect them, and to serve them. It seems like an unrealistic fantasy for a man to think she’d want him just for what he is. Therefore, you need to tell him, HONESTLY, what it is that you want. “I’m tired of celebrity bullshit. I just want to be normal again,” maybe. “I want you to take me away from all of this. I have money. We could do whatever we want.” It is obviously a very difficult thing to bring up on the first date, which is why online dating is fabulous. You can say that kinda stuff out loud before you even go on a date. “I’m tired of being a celebrity. I want to find someone normal who…” Or whatever YOUR reasons may be – the person reading this may not be the person who originally asked the question. (I’m not fully clued in on celebrity-normal person dating sites, but I’m sure they’re out there in other formats than sugar-dating but you know… True love can find you with sugar on top, too, don’t you think?)

You have to find a way to express what you need – and being an artist, I’m sure you find the words for it. If you want to publish it as a huge dating campaign, and your people resist, tell them you want to create this ‘expectation’, the possibility of dating you… As you KNOW that it sells like hotcakes. 😉 (And it truly does. It is FAR FAR FAR more exciting to follow a celebrity who might be interested in someone normal out there, than someone who is never going to look your way no matter how much you shush up.)

They need to know why you want them – whichever way you find to inform them.

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