When LOOKING for your True Emotion Mirror (the one)

There is one HUGE thing to know when you are looking for your True Emotion Mirror… If you are consciously looking for “the one”, or Mr. Right or Mrs. Right, and you KNOW of True Emotion Mirrors, or worse yet, you’ve heard their voice but don’t know who they are… You’ll be searching with two fears: A) You’ll meet them but don’t notice it and you reject The One, while looking for someone unrealistically amazing. B) You haven’t met them, but you commit yourself to the wrong person, thinking that this person is The One, then you get serious, only to meet your True Emotion Mirror a few months later.

Keep looking, but relax.

I’m not going to tell you to stop looking because you never will stop looking. What I will tell you tho, is to relax. Enjoy the search to whatever level you’re able to. You’ll know him or her. You’ll get another chance if you don’t recognize them at first. You don’t always notice someone being AMAZING the moment you meet them; it may take you some time to realize that, Oh My God, this is the person. This is the energy I’ve been looking for… People get closed up; they get weirded out for a ton of reasons. Still, don’t expect every man or woman you meet to be “just closed up.” Ignore them as much as you like; if they’re your True Emotion Mirror, they’ll pop back up somewhere. They’ll have to for their own good; this is not just about YOUR happiness; they need you as much as you need them.

However, if someone you’ve met is a little more fitting for you than the one you think is your True Emotion Mirror… You better keep on looking. If you’d feel DISAPPOINTED that this person is the one “meant for you”, that can’t be your True Emotion Mirror. CANNOT be. Even at the height of your self-confidence and sense of trust that everything works out great for you, you’ll STILL feel grateful to have found them and amazed they love you back… Maybe not GOBSMACKED, but… certainly you’ll feel grateful and lucky.

Don’t date, and DEFINITELY don’t commit to anyone “just in case they’re the one.” Talk, for sure. Talk to people and see how it feels to be near them. But don’t ever start an actual relationship “just in case.” Rather, stay single “just in case.”

Telepathic TrEmoRs

Sometimes, as you know, True Emotion Mirrors have a telepathic connection to each other before they even meet. The reason why the other party may not know anything about you on a conscious level, tho, is so that they would not be tempted to go LOOKING for you and winding up getting married, they HOPE is you, but isn’t… Even when they don’t know, they tend to marry your lookalikes which is bad enough… But at least they haven’t told that person that they’re their True Emotion Mirror if they don’t even know about telepathy between people being possible.

Potential True Emotion Mirror, however

There are a few people who should keep in mind the Potential True Emotion Mirror -concept. This is mainly relevant to polygamists only. When you haven’t had the time to build a True Emotion Mirror bond with a person yet, but you kinda KNOW you’d be disappointed to NOT date and get to know someone, and you feel selfishly needy to see your cards with someone, by all means, do it, if you both feel that way. Selfishness is no excuse to force another person into trying, however, this need to see it through MUST BE mutual… And the one who DOES NOT want it wins.

You can’t force the other person to try because “it needs to be mutual and they have to play along with your wishes”, no. That would be a bit too easy a rule to manipulate, don’t you think? Anyone could just claim they feel they’re your True Emotion Mirror and force you to trust their feelings when the crush is and will always be one-sided. The GENUINE, authentic wish to see if you’ve got True Emotion Mirror potential must exist, but you also have to accept, somewhere in the back of your mind, that MAYBE you’ll find you’re precious soulmates or nothing at all, and you’ll have to let go of each other, but even so… The start MUST be something you both want, but you don’t have any obligation to want to date people who want to date you.

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