When to push and when to wait for the Universe to fix your love life?

I blogged some months ago about how you have to quit waiting for the Universe to fix your True Emotion Mirror relationship and go the extra mile for your soulmate… And since then, I’ve been pestered by some spirit followers for an answer to the question: “Why are YOU not doing a thing but wait for the Universe to fix your problems for you?!” So here’s my attempt to help everyone to find the balance between pushing it and waiting patiently for a solution.

The Universe (God & law of attraction) works so that you will be given a chance to achieve, obtain and fix your life dreams. That is what we are waiting for; the opportunity to do what we want to do and the opportunity to fix what needs fixing and the opportunity to grab a chance that will take you to your dream. Your job is to know when you have no real opportunity to push for it (wrong time) and when you’re just chickening out and expecting everything to come to  you like a ready made meal to a King or a Queen. It is very common for women to wait for the man to make sacrifices and grand gestures in order to win her love, but she shouldn’t shy away from trying that herself sometimes.

It is often pride that keeps us from approaching our true love, fear of rejection, fear of seeming ridiculous, not wanting to be the first one to reach out because they still might be angry. If your motivation for staying away is pride rather than respect, you’ve got the wrong reason. Respecting your soulmate’s life, their relationship and right to reject you is a good reason to keeping away and hoping for a solution or an opportunity from the Universe. If it’s pride that is keeping you from going there, then you have to start working on that pride through spiritual work so that you understand why you’d let the best thing ever happened to you slip through your fingers simply because you’re afraid of rejection.

When trying to decide whether or not you should do something, always consider if the action would be something you’d be proud to have done even if it failed. This is important because you need to be your authentic self when approaching a True Emotion Mirror, and if you’d be caught doing something you wouldn’t be proud doing, it would be a bad thing. To make a point, if we consider “home wrecking”, it can be either a good thing or a bad thing because to some rescuing their lover from a bad marriage would be an honourable thing to do, where as disrespecting a good marriage would be a thing they wouldn’t want to be caught doing. To some, interfering in someone’s  marriage is wrong in every situation, to some marriage means nothing – and all of these decisions are such that your True Emotion Mirror will love you for the exact choice you’d make from your authentic self. (A Trail Companion* might not. If you choose an inauthentic action, you might alienate a True Emotion Mirror and charm a Trail Companion*.) A more harmless example would be that to some soulmate groups being cool is of great importance, and they love each other for being and acting cool. To someone else, the exact opposite is true, where making a fool out of yourself in the name of love is the greatest sign of love they could imagine. If you listen to the advice given by each group member, you’d clearly get complete opposite advice from both, and should you take it, you’d be doing damage to your relationship rather than help it.

As all life, its both about growth and discovering the true you; the True You being the person you’d be proud being. Once you have discovered a state where you can honestly smile at your reflection and go: “I’m proud of myself” you know you are living from your authentic state, and that is the state that will determined your actions in ALL life’s situations, not only in regards of True Emotion Mirrors . Sometimes opportunity is put in your path just to ask you a question: “how far are you willing to compromise your authentic self in order to be with your soulmate?” If you compromise too far, it will probably mean you won’t make the leap, and your approach will be rejected… But then again, the question goes both ways: “How much are you willing to forgive your True Emotion Mirror…” 😀 There’s always a question and there’ll always be an answer. Just make sure you will love your decisions, that’s all.

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