When True Emotion Mirrors fight… (you better leave the room)

I’ve mentioned several times that nobody loves you like a True Emotion Mirror and nobody hurts you like a True Emotion Mirror. This is what drives most True Emotion Mirror couples apart, they can blow up over the smallest of things; storms in a class of water. This happens primarily, because True Emotion Mirrors feel each other’s emotions, and especially when they are not aware enough of those of their own, they will follow each other from slight annoyance to full blown rage in a space of seconds. This is why it is so important to cultivate your own self-awareness so you will recognise your own emotions before you follow your True Emotion Mirror into rage, or at least that you’ll be able to take a step back and decide to calm down – so that your True Emotion Mirror may follow you into calm.

Because the True Emotion Mirrors love each other so much, everything they say will have a maximum impact in their other half, be it positive or negative – but naturally the cruel remarks go right into the deep flesh. They get under your skin, they can reach into your chest, rip your heart out and tear it into pieces with their bare hands, and then claim you hurt them. Naturally, when the love is so great, the betrayal of it is such a massive offence that you want to pay back with interest, and the mess is ready to boil over. There is no fights more volatile than between True Emotion Mirrors – unless it’s a question of substance abuse or mental disorders; never mind all combined…

Hate is an emotion that rises from a feeling of threat. This person is somehow a threat to your survival or happiness – usually happiness. When the True Emotion Mirror is in question, and things don’t run smoothly along the calm waters, the threat lurks in there. That is when we start preparing ourselves against the threat of losing the True Emotion Mirror and their love. There is no such offence to your happiness as a True Emotion Mirror taking back their love from you, or removing themselves from your lives. Both of the True Emotion Mirrors would soon sense the threat in each other, as one starts fearing separation, the other one senses that separation is in the horizon, and this fear gets bounced back and forth until one of them decides to put this into test and blow up. The other one, having sensed the separation coming, will react with “fine, I’ll go”.

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