When your True Emotion Mirror barely speaks to you…

It’s super awkward sometimes when your True Emotion Mirror acts aggressive or disinterested toward you. They kind of brush you off with not many comments or responses, even trying to put you into a very small box from where you are allowed to talk to them. Nobody would blame you for bailing. HOWEVER.

If you really fuckken love this person, and if they are your True Emotion Mirror, you do… Just keep at it. Even if you had to just send “a hi” every so often, do it. Keep reminding them that you remember they exist.

There are people who need reassurance that you won’t leave them. They have trust issues. They FEAR trusting that your wonderful vivacious and happy company will stay there, so they reduce your allowance to the minimum as if to tell you that they are not interesting, rather than they are not interested. :p Grant you that, they probably aren’t interested in your fleeting company, your unreliable flirtation, but they may only be genuinely interested in a serious relationship with you.

You kinda have to figure out WHAT are they not interested in, too. It could be that they are not interested in becoming your piggy bank, right? The guy who keeps paying for your bills while you never give him what he needs to feel alive: Mind-blowing sex. Ease his fears on that. Maybe your True Emotion Mirror isn’t interested in being your blow-up doll if every guy she knows just wants to fuck her. Interestingly, by experience, I think a lot of men think men think that way about beautiful women, so they try to be the guy who won’t fuck her, and even a woman can be not interested in being your anatomically incorrect porcelain doll wife. Some girls want to emphasize the fact they NEED TO be fucked by a man, and that doesn’t mean they are not interested in being YOUR WIFE.

However, the key here is… feel your way into what is it that he or she fears? You’ll get into it by just sticking around through the discomfort of semi-rejection. Once you figure it out, you’ll have to decide are they correct in their fears that you are not going to give them what they need or not?

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