When your True Emotion Mirror finds you, the fight over your soul starts

This is probably something that independent, self-respecting modern women don’t realize… When your True Emotion Mirror finds you, your friends and family will fly into “your defense”, to “protect you” from your True Emotion Mirror(s)’s sexual attention of you – in spirit and possibly in person as well.

The same may well be true for the men, but then the fight in question is more than likely your rival suitors, ex-spouses, girlfriends, wish-they-were-his-wives… And the mother. More than likely tho, the fight over the True Emotion Mirror souls are conducted between females close to both sides. Men MAY have a say, but at least in this time of history, men seem to be in the background while the fight occurs between females.

Neither you nor your True Emotion Mirror – whichever your gender – may be at all interested in this fight, but it doesn’t stop everyone around you from going a little bit insane. Your best friends may feel they will lose you forever, and effectively, they will. NOBODY will ever be able to compete with a True Emotion Mirror, except ANOTHER True Emotion Mirror, and only for as long as you all figure out your stance on polyamory. Everyone else can only hope to delay the inevitable, never to actually stop it from happening – sooner or later.

People around you can go  a little nuts

When people fear losing someone they think the world of, they may stoop to dreadful lows in order to keep their loved one (all to) themselves. They’ve seen girlfriends/boyfriends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, all sorts come and go, but this person is different. They SENSE this person is different. The TrEmoR is a threat to their position in your life. They are your TRUE EMOTION MIRROR, your Sun and your Moon, your Alpha and Omega. To you, this doesn’t seem like a sensible reaction, after all, if they loved you, they should let you be happy… right..? But when your happiness means their “demise”, they may feel that you are being extremely selfish or short-sighted for rushing into this relationship with little or no regard to anybody else.

Anybody who has met their True Emotion Mirror knows that when you see them, everyone else kind of dwarfs in importance to you, and often, the ONLY people who still matter in this equation are your existing children… if you have any, and perhaps one or two other people… If you’re lucky enough to have made some really good friends in your lifetime.

They may blame all existing rifts on the TrEmoR

There’s a good chance the people in your life that you have ever had any issues with will blame all of those issues on your TrEmoR. It may be that YOUR patience with them ended the second you saw your True Emotion Mirror, as all you want is to move into your new life with them. You will lash out faster because you have someone who loves you now, and you are no longer dependent on the acceptance of the other people in your life. As this change happened with your True Emotion Mirror’s arrival, they blame all of it on them. (Or your TrEmor’s people could blame you if you’re in that position.) This may make them react to the TrEmoR with a level of aggression and fear, and some WEIRD antiquated bonding rituals like the ages-old and very effin’ tired speech of: “If you break a hair on my daughter’s head…” and “you take good care of him/her or else…”

Your existing friends and family may feel a need for a ritual to let go of you. A wedding being the obvious one. They may feel that THEIR HONOR is at stake if they let a family member or an old friend change hands without so much of a ritual to help them with that transition and to safe face in the community. (This is the Normal Person*/the Savants* conflict once again.) A ritual will be good between Precious Soulmate family members and friends, but Trail Companion* family and friends will more than likely have to just suck it up.

You may have an issue with someone talking… S behind your back

Also note this. When people are afraid of losing someone, they may resort to lies and deceit to keep you… Or even to prove to you that they fear losing you and that they care… But one of the most effective ways to sabotage a budding romance with someone is to spread lies about you or them to cause a rift between you two (or within your soup). It is NOT WISE to trust your TrEmoR’s friends at this stage, especially not without talking to him or her about it. Never take ANYONE’s word over that of a person you’re head over heels in love with – but be mindful of those times when you WISH YOU WERE in love with someone but aren’t, really.

Your friends will tell you to be suspicious of your True Emotion Mirror, I tell you to be suspicious of your friend’s motives at this stage… as well.

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