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Why attractive girls should only be friends with equally attractive girls

Although it may be difficult to say what it is that makes a girl super attractive, the girls who have it know they do. They know it simply by the fact they’ve got men lining up to them and they don’t need to do anything to make that happen. These girls are not only a target for men, but they are also targets for other women who wish to be using these girls for a husband bait.

On the surface, it would seem counterproductive to make friends with a girl who is significantly better looking than you are, but how this works is the spoils -factor. The hot girls take their pick, and let the spoils fall into the hands of the less attractive girls, who, by the way, are attractive to the men by association. Without the girl the man actually fell in love with, they would never even notice the less attractive friend. When the girl they really wanted slips off their hands, the broken-hearted young man chooses the first girl that they see – and who would that be? With all energy drained out after the turmoil of having been in love with the beauty, they wow never to fall for another beauty again and pick the less attractive “but kind-hearted” girl sitting right next to them.

This is the side effect of forcefully imposed monogamy. Without it, these girls could love as many men as they are able, but even so, the less attractive girls would still have a good vantage point to pick out the ones that are falling off the abundant table of the alpha female.

The same works in reverse, the hot guys who are surrounded by a lot of women, and a few less attractive male friends.

So why should these girls hang out with equally hot women, doesn’t that sound counter-productive, too? Isn’t their entire superiority based on the fact they are so much hotter than their friends?

If a girl is polygynous and accepts it, it makes sense she would want her girlfriends to be equally hot; the men will never be able to choose which one is hotter, therefore, they can always bounce the poor boys between themselves driving him mad with lust.

If a girl is polyandrous, she make friends with other polyandrous girls who are equally hot, because when a polyandrous guy is trying to look for the easy way out, he will quickly realize that all the girls here mean a world of pain, so he’ll be better off choosing the one that is actually worth it all. It stops them from slipping away when they go through that weak phase when they simply can’t take it anymore. When the easy way out is nowhere to be seen, he can regain his strength in a matter of hours.

 

All of this is fine in theory, of course. We’ll discuss practicalities later.

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