Why do some people accept a breakup so easily?

When you “went through a lot together,” reconsider what it was that you went through with them… Did you GO THROUGH things, or did you RATHER put them through a lot of shite FOR YOU? Did they have that SAME bonding experience as you did, or could it be that they rather felt violated, abused, taken advantage of, and bullied when you were with them? You felt high emotions, maybe euphoric states when that person didn’t run from you (straight away) but felt gutted when they left? Why is that?

What did they put you through, in their turn? What was the common enemy that you fought? Was that enemy YOURS by chance, or someone who, at least tried to get in between you two even if it was YOUR enemy to start with? Whose enemy was it? Just because you’re together, doesn’t make every enemy you fight together YOUR MUTUAL ONE, in every case.

Who gave what and why? Was it a necessary thing to go through? What did you do that would make them feel you are an irreplaceable source of support and comfort to them?

Yeah, I didn’t think so.

They probably have something better to do than to deal with the bullshit you are creating for yourself when they really don’t have to.

That is why some people accept breakups quite easily.

That, and knowing that if a person doesn’t want to be with you, it’s not a real relationship anyway.

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