Why do you love your True Emotion Mirror more than you love your child?

There is some expectation in some people that they get to act like children with their True Emotion Mirrors (and non-related Precious Soulmates) because True Emotion Mirrors should love them more than their child. The reason why your True Emotion Mirror loves you more than they love their child is LARGELY BECAUSE THEY DON’T ACT LIKE CHILDREN.

Children are not adults by their very definition. Your True Emotion Mirror is your adult lover, by definition. Therefore, you are not expected to act like a bratty child with your True Emotion Mirror. Still, a lot of people who are not fully emotionally mature will test their TrEmoRs commitment, expecting their commitment to be the same kind as that of a parent, not a lover.

Children will grow up, bratty lovers likely won’t.

The reason why parents have patience with their children is that they are children. They expect the children to grow up and become less testy over time. It is also a noted development phase in which children test their parents’ love and reliability by acting horribly. (Old Soul children don’t do this, however, as if they don’t really care. Old Soul children have lived enough lifetimes to know they can survive a shitty parent and that their parents are not their ultimate destination in life. They may also prefer emotionally colder parents so they’ll be free to find their True Emotion Mirror later in life. Clingy parents are difficult in that regard.)

Because children will grow up, their bratty behavior is acceptable. There’s an end to it. A bratty adult is a mystery, particularly to an old soul partner who doesn’t understand why they would act this way. They don’t know how to reassure a grown adult, and they may also not feel confident that they “won’t go anywhere” if the bad behavior doesn’t stop, and they don’t trust that it will stop even with reassurance. Also, old soul adults find brattiness a very off-putting trait they wish their true partner didn’t show in the first place.

Your True Emotion Mirror is the rock that helps you live through raising bratty children… Not themselves.

Your True Emotion Mirror is your true lover. One of their purpose is to be the person you raise your children with, the one who gets you through the hardest of times with children or whatever else comes your way. They are NOT supposed to BE your TEST; they’re supposed to be the thing that helps you through the hard times and the motivation to live at all.

Your True Emotion Mirror is the one who HELPS YOU love your children, even when they are difficult or downright impossible to love, not the one that tests your ability to love themselves. Your True Emotion Mirror is the person who you find THE EASIEST to love. They’re not supposed to be the person who makes it as hard as possible; that’s the privilege of an adolescent child, not your partner’s trait.

True Emotion Mirrors are not each other’s children, nor is one of them the parent while the other gets to be a brat.

One of the most common reasons for True Emotion Mirror separation is that one of them is testing the other like a bratty child. (The other is that they’re playing an adult partner like they were under-developed adult; a narcissist.)

If you feel like you need to test your True Emotion Mirror’s love like a child, there’s your reason for separation. The Universe is hoping and praying you’ll grow the f up before trying out that relationship, so if you haven’t MET your True Emotion Mirror yet, the Universe is hoping that you’ll grow up first. It’s possible there are or have been other people in your life who are close to a True Emotion Mirror chemistry that shows you that bratty behavior with a lover simply won’t do, but it is up to you to learn that lesson.

Unbreakable much?!

A True Emotion Mirror bond won’t break – but it isn’t meant for emotional children to experience. This is an ADULT EXPERIENCE, therefore, the expectation is that adults won’t test it LIKE CHILDREN WOULD. What it means is that your sexual attraction won’t die, that your love for each other’s authentic personality won’t turn out to be based on an illusion and that the more you get to know each other, the more you love each other, rather than the other way around when it comes to other people… With whom the love is always based on a partial illusion or assumption the person is something that they are not.

The unbreakable means that THE MORE YOU GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, the MORE YOU LOVE one another, where the opposite is true for everyone else.

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