Why some conflicts do not have an amicable ending in sight?

A never-ending feud between two people is usually about two very different types of people fighting toward an opposite or different goal. One person fights about the topic at hand and the other fights about something different. One person is trying to guess what the real issue is, while the other is trying to communicate it as clearly as they can.

When two people are very different, they might not believe, understand, or guess what the real issue is about. I’ll break it down for you:

A the Old Souls* is trying to tell you they don’t love you – go away (or give me space where I don’t have to love you).

A the Young Soul* is trying to tell you they need your love and for you to be more present.

Neither one can change their feelings – the Old Souls* in particular. When you don’t love someone, arguing about it is absolutely pointless, whatever any paper – including a birth certificate – would suggest.

The Young Soul* doesn’t say so.

This is how far it can go. I am quite certain Vladimir Putin’s war in Ukraine is the Young Soul* trying to get back the love of Ukraine. They believe the fight they started will gain them respect and to show they care about Ukraine and want it back because they love Ukraine. The more Ukraine fights back, the more Russia thinks it demands respect and love before they come back. The idea of “independence from what was before” doesn’t ever sit well with the Young Soul*.

The Young Soul* doesn’t typically tell you why they’re fighting you, but they take it for granted. You understand it means they love you, and they want you to know they are willing to fight you to get your attention/love/respect and ultimately love.

The insanity of this is that the Young Soul* seems to FIGHT YOU when they think they are fighting for the relationship. They LITERALLY fight you, rather than get couple’s therapy to fight a breakup… Or something.

The last thing you should do to win over a Old Souls* is to fight them.

Ironically, the last thing you do to gain the love and respect of a Old Souls* is to fight them. You only make matters much, much, much worse with them. When before, you could have had an amicable relationship; now, you don’t have a chance of it, not in this lifetime. When a whole nation is involved in the crisis, not in generations. The Old Souls* will also easily teach the Young Soul* Thinking friend, neighbor, child, etc. to hate you forever, but have typically learned not to do that. They identify individuals who are the problem, rather than groups based on external identifiers, such as “a Russian,” “men,” “rich people,” or “feminists.”

The Young Soul* fights to demonstrate they’re ready for their responsibilities.

A the Young Soul* is ashamed of ONE THING ONLY: To be broken up from by someone who they consider their responsibility. To them, that means they didn’t perform their duties well enough.

When they get married, for instance, they expect to be given their duties, and if they don’t get any, they fight as a performance art: “I’m ready for my responsibilities. I’m not afraid of you, nor the tasks you’ve got for me.”

They feel shame, because they see themselves being responsible for their partner or friend. They feel they’ve let them down. If they believe they would have been up to the task and “fired” unfairly, (Amber Heard,) they feel utterly insulted and can wage revenge.

the Old Souls* tries to be useless to turn off people – but this is practically the Young Soul* Thinking mating call.

Ironically, the Old Souls* love people for their strengths and they can try and turn you off by pretending to be ‘useless to you and everyone else.’ This uselessness triggers the Young Soul* Thinking love like nothing else. “I need to take care of you. I need to love you.”

A the Old Souls* LOATHES the idea of someone “taking care of them.” If they ever allow it, it means they are utterly, head over heels in love with this person, and they’ll only ever allow their True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates to even try. In addition, they may allow mild care from someone who they trust not to get too attached despite.

When the Young Soul* feels they’ve royally fucked up and let you down, they must fight you strongly EVEN IF THEY DON’T BELIEVE in resolution anymore – just to make it known they “tried.”

The way out of the situation.

SHAMELESSLY demonstrate your strengths. Get your life back on track. Perform better than the person/people you try to break up from. BE SUPERIOR. Ideally, find a partner who is better suited for you; someone equally gifted and superior; your True Emotion Mirror.

If you are still single or not romantically attached to that person/those people, put up a certain front of success or ambition and ‘snub’ them. Act a little bit narcissistic, but try not to become one. 😉

Warnings.

While acting superior works in two ways; you’ll attract the Old Souls* and repel near-equal the Young Soul*, you’ll still attract willing minions. They’ll make themselves easy to identify… And they can be used for personal promotion and other tasks, but don’t even think about rewarding them. Not even with too emotional kindness… The Old Souls* ignore group messages of love and appreciation because they KNOW it’s not meant for them, really, but SOME the Young Soul* take it for real, when you finish your social media videos with “love you guys.” When they meet you, they want you to prove it. They will come in with a folder demonstrating their continued devotion to you; a body of work if you will, expecting that to lead to a personal relationship with them.

Talk to your social media followers as if they were your equals, in for the fun ride or equally ambitious or what not. COACHING on social media is a dangerous game. You’ll have to be very careful how you do it, and NEVER coach your inferiors; only equals who you need to “tip off” rather than carry like a sack of potatos. IGNORE potato sack clients. DON’T offer personal time, whatever you do, do not offer personal time.

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