There are two kinds of people, basically. One wants one type of love, and others want that other. Then, there’s a third type that everybody avoids; an obsession. The trouble is that True Emotion Mirror relationships may look on the outside like an obsession without being so.

Obsession is a feeling that you cling to something you cannot have but must have anyway… It looks very similar to a True Emotion Mirror thing, doesn’t it? Obsession is like trying to force the Universe to give you what you want without a true chance of it working. Maybe a bit like how you go about your True Emotion Mirror relationship when looking outside in, doesn’t it? Obsession is exhausting, you can feel it pounding in your eyes and temples, it makes your heart rate go up, and you may feel like you are on the verge of a heart attack. Perhaps not at all the way you feel about your True Emotion Mirror, who, to you, is the calmest, most obvious thing that you love.

Loving a True Emotion Mirror is effortless.

True Emotion Mirror makes loving them EFFORTLESS. You love them without effort or fear, and you feel happy and blissful with them because you don’t have to constantly WORK at finding the positives about this person; their positives are blatantly obvious to you. Even if you were angry with them, swearing and screaming in their face that you wish you’d never met them, you’re still aware of your love for them. They will never truly make you feel like you need to rekindle your love for them, even when they’re not at their best, and you’re not at your best.

When you are obsessed about someone, you want to CHANGE THEM to give you the same rush that a True Emotion Mirror gives you naturally. You want to CONTROL that person so that they’d work for you like a True Emotion Mirror would. You see them as your BEST CHANCE to get a True Emotion Mirror energy into your life.

Real obsession is about a Trail Companion* who you try to force into being a True Emotion Mirror.

Contentment feels blissful compared to an obsession.

Once you learn that you cannot force a Trail Companion* to give you the emotional space that a True Emotion Mirror can and that being with someone who actually wants you is a lot more rewarding feeling, you’ll let go of your obsession and find contentment with someone else. However, if you HAVE a True Emotion Mirror, you will OBSESSIVELY deny every other offer of love and keep wishing things would finally work out.

But compared to an obsession, True Emotion Mirror love, even in separation, is calmer than that. You don’t WORRY about losing them because they are bound to you for eternity or that that bind is only a matter of time or decision. You’ll also stop worrying about losing people that might drift away from you because you know now that you don’t need to HOLD ON TO true love; it is yours whether you hold onto it or not. Holding onto your True Emotion Mirror is like holding onto your head, fearing it will fall off – sometimes you might get a temporary feeling, almost like a joke, that makes you want to touch your head and keep it steady on your shoulders. Still, at the end of the day, you know your head will stay on without you worrying about it.

Rejection of everyone who isn’t a True Emotion Mirror may seem a bit obsessive, too.

The part that feels like an obsession about a True Emotion Mirror is the need to reject the love that isn’t a True Emotion Mirror love or is incompatible with it. You may need to reject people who would come in between your True Emotion Mirror relationship – as that can happen. For instance, if your mom or dad insists on being your number one love, “family before romance” style, or worries about your feelings for this person, that is something that can cause big drama in your True Emotion Mirror relationship. You will tell your mom or dad to back off and let you go. You may feel like a teenage brat pushing your parents and best friends and other interested parties out of your True Emotion Mirror relationship – and I firmly believe you should keep doing that even though it feels a bit nasty.

Others may start obsessing about your True Emotion Mirror relationship, too.

 You may feel obsessed and like a bratty teenager trying to keep the outsiders out and insiders in, and THAT can be the thing that makes others around you feel such a strong need to “help you get over” your True Emotion Mirror by trying to push MORE incompatible, wrong people into your life, either directly or through spiritual influence. (And yes, normal people who want something for you can manifest things into your life that you don’t want, but you don’t have to accept them. On their part, they can also keep people you want to be in it away from you, but that’s another topic.)

Often it is harder to break the Trail Companion* connection than it is to break the True Emotion Mirror bond.

Often, people around True Emotion Mirrors will, in fact, experience obsession themselves while accusing the True Emotion Mirror(s) of it. They know the TrEmoR is pulling their loved one away from them, and they may feel it necessary to obsessively stop them from slipping away. When True Emotion Mirrors think that their love is less important than the love of a mother or a best friend, and they will always think of their TrEmoR’s best before their own. They may let go of their True Emotion Mirror far faster than the Trail Companions* will.

However, True Emotion Mirrors must learn that what is the best thing for their True Emotion Mirror is for them to hold onto them, not to let go of them, and even though True Emotion Mirrors are PRONE to letting go and doubting their position, they should LEARN NOT TO… But not obsessively. Obsessive self-confidence is what often gets in the way of True Emotion Mirrors when an outsider’s obsessive self-confidence keeps telling them that their love is more important than the love of another person in that person’s life, despite what that person is telling them.

True Emotion Mirrors, may need to hold onto each other when others are trying to pull them apart – other than that, they’ll stay together effortlessly.

True Emotion Mirrors may sometimes reject each other, making their relationship seem insecure.

Even if a True Emotion Mirror may reject its genuine counterpart at times, it is unlikely they’d both reject them and declare their love for another person. Even that, unfortunately, can happen if that person is involved in dangerous activities like organized crime and sees no other way to protect the True Emotion Mirror from it – they’d sacrifice the person who they declare they love to keep their True Emotion Mirror away from the danger – but that is somewhat of a fringe scenario, as I’m sure you can plainly see. 😉

There is also the fact that True Emotion Mirrors find it hard sometimes to get on the same page because if both of them are indoctrinated to “put their best foot forward,” that foot isn’t the best one to start with a True Emotion Mirror. Whenever a TrEmoR tries to fake it a little, it’ll be less attractive to the other party, not more. This, and other things, may make the True Emotion Mirror’s start to the relationship somewhat troubled and tremulous, which doesn’t necessarily endear people to it.

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