Why the Normal Person*people attack your weaknesses (to make friends)
the Savants* people, who bond through their strengths and divide by their weaknesses, may not have noticed that the Normal Person* attack each other’s weaknesses in order to point out similarities between them. The conversation should go as follows:
– Oh, Helen, look at your stupid brown hair!
– What’s that, then, on your head! It’s just as brown as mine!
– It is, isn’t it! (hahaha haha)
That then means they can be friends because they have the same weakness, imagined weakness as it may be.
the Savants*, if they want to make friends with a specific the Normal Person*, or a Savants* who uses the Normal Person*bonding methods as they may have learned to, should respond to any accusation with a similar accusation, even if they had to ASSUME that they’re truly talking about themselves.
The trouble is that the Normal Person* may try and sympathize with a Savants* poor self-esteem, but when they don’t feel down on themselves at all, this whole conversation seems illogical and a mere empty but annoying put-down. If you don’t have poor self-esteem at all, you don’t understand how to respond to jibes about whatever the Normal Person* feels insecure about.
Still;
– You think I’m some kind of a prince Charming, don’t you?
– Uh, are you calling me a princess looking for one, huh?
– Maybe?
– Don’t worry, I’ve always loved dogs like yourself.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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