Why the Timeless male thinks and behaves like a mix of the two thinker types.

A the Timeless man who “knows how to treat women” is quite a conundrum to type in terms of thinker type. This is because they have taught themselves to “treat women right,” which, haha, it’s a bit like the “how to train a dog” manual. As the women who are most eagerly looking for commitment and relationships are the Modern, men tend to believe all women are the Modern.  Sadly, this self-training goes dead wrong when they try to impress a Timeless woman, and this is one of the biggest reasons why True Emotion Mirror relationships fail between high-level “good with the opposite gender” people.

A bit of background

To be fair, I have a little blind spot for myself here, as us the Timeless women are in the same boat, but since the Modern women, the Modern men, and the Timeless men all agree that in relationships, women are in charge, the Timeless women can be a little more free to demonstrate their natural feelings than the Timeless men are, even if a Timeless woman thinks men are in charge. (They either want you or they don’t, kind of like a Timeless man believes about women; we put ourselves out there, and ultimately, they choose whether they accept you or not.) Unlike the Timeless men, the Timeless women are far less likely to accept even mild the Modern -typical need for figuring out the dominant party in the relationship that the Timeless women call spousal abuse, even if they are willing to lower their expectations of fireworks a little.

(Mind you, the Modern women are often pots calling the kettle black – an abusing female accusing their the Modern husband an abuser for doing the same thing as they, themselves, are doing to him. With the typical thinking that only men are meaningfully abusive in relationships, us the Timeless have given the Modern females all the power to claim their husbands are abusive even when it were completely the other way around.)

They’re not friends with cavemen.

In their male-to-male relationships, a Timeless man is clearly a Timeless. They believe in individual freedom, they don’t force anyone… Basically, a Timeless male is the Sigma male. Young Soul* are both alphas and betas. They swap, depending on whether they feel inferior or superior to any given person. A the Timeless male, or a sigma, stays out of these games between men but makes friends with men they consider reasonable rather than… overly competitive and aggressive. Still, they allow women to boss or submit or decide there has to be a boss in a romantic relationship. Some the Timeless men decide that if a relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal, they will submit or dominate – depending on their personality – but only in their romantic relationship.

the Timeless women won’t accept being dominated in a relationship for long.

A the Timeless woman is most likely to find some unity with a Timeless man who has chosen to submit without a fight because a Timeless woman will not chase, won’t play games, and won’t boss (micro manage) a man. (If he goes the Modern typically into an ameba mode, “tell me what to do,” she’ll eventually bail, basically because when a Timeless wants to get rid of someone, they do the ameba, “I won’t be useful to you, don’t count on me to be there fore you, don’t tie me into your operations, I’ll be gone as soon as I can,” to drive people away when the Modern tries to demonstrate a willingness to obey.) Therefore, they’ll find an equal relationship with a Timeless man who doesn’t need to boss a woman, the same as she won’t need to boss a man. So they’re both basically already decidedly submitted to the opposite gender, and that’s practically the only way the Timeless come together.

A the Timeless man who has decided he doesn’t want to submit to a woman will not be able to keep a Timeless woman in a relationship. While she may be into BDSM, she will never submit to a bossy man, at least not for long. If he tries to assert his dominance over her, she will reject him before he even knows what he did that was so unforgivable compared to how every the Modern woman eats out of his hand with the same treatment.

A the Timeless man may have taught themselves to play the game the Modern woman’s way.

If a Timeless man equates the Modern traits as “feminine” they are more than likely taught themselves to play the game that way. This confuses the Timeless woman, who, at no stage, tried to challenge or argue with the Timeless man, but he treats her aggressively or indifferently from the start – because that’s how you win the attention and respect of the Modern woman. The same treatment will send a Timeless woman “running” as in turn her off the idea of even talking to the guy. That doesn’t mean she’s necessarily fallen out of love with him, but it can turn her off the idea of interacting with him until he grows the f*** up.

A the Timeless man would do much better with the Timeless women, if he just treated them the same way he treats his friends, and evaluated all women through the same lens and criteria he uses for his male friends. He should stop making “allowances” for women in the fear that he’ll wind up alone if he doesn’t.

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