Why we talk about “finding a True Emotion Mirror” rather than “creating a True Emotion Mirror”

This is another “explaining the obvious” posts, so please don’t get too confused if you wonder why I am even saying this. To some people, this seems to be a difficult concept to grasp.

When we say “we are True Emotion Mirrors” or that “we are soul-bond lovers” or “we are soulmates”, we DO NOT mean that we are exceptional lovers or exceptional people or amazing spiritual superior beings, but that we have found our perfect spiritual counterpart that means that we’ve been lucky, more than anything. Having a True Emotion Mirror has nothing to do with “deserving one” or “having earned one”, let alone with being “spiritually advanced” even though the likelihood of having a True Emotion Mirror increases with a person’s level of spiritual awareness.

In many ways, when the True Emotion Mirror theory explains this connection as “the other half of your soul”, which means that this is a connection already made in the beginning of time, it makes it CLEAR that these connections do not just happen. Unfortunately, or fortunately, whichever way you see it, life is a little bit more complicated than that, but if it helps to understand the significance of these relationships, then by all means, consider the True Emotion Mirror either the other half of your soul, or a fragment of your soul, should you be open to consider the possibility of a “poly-fractured True Emotion Mirror.” What this would mean is that this is a one-in-a-7-billion find, or, at most, say… to give a HUGE estimate, 100-in-a-7-billion-find. Even if this isn’t a case of a split soul, the numbers are still accurate, but the likelihood that you wind up together in the same area are surprisingly high, as rebirth is not random but planned and agreed on.

“Having a True Emotion Mirror” is similar to “having a friend” is, but, obviously, a very different relationship, but what this means is that having a friend doesn’t mean you’re an incredible person or that you’re better than others, but it may mean you are better at making a connection to someone who is a potential friend. Just the same, some people are better at making the connection to their True Emotion Mirror, but simply having one doesn’t guarantee happiness or that you can handle this relationship without problems.

A True Emotion Mirror cannot be replaced by another person, who is NOT a True Emotion Mirror to this same person. Although I believe it is possible there are several True Emotion Mirrors to one person, it doesn’t mean that if you can’t make it with one, you’ll take a random person off the street, or pick the hottest guy or girl you know and teach them how to be your new True Emotion Mirror. It doesn’t work that way, obviously. Each person is the way they are because that is who they are. Each person is a delicate, complicated combination of qualities and traits, and those qualities and traits are 100% compatible with SOMEONE, and therefore this person is the True Emotion Mirror of that someone, but that doesn’t mean this person can be made into another person’s True Emotion Mirror simply because they happen to be there. True Emotion Mirrors are NEVER a single individual but to be a True Emotion Mirror always means you have a perfect counterpart to yourself, whether you know who that is or not. You are LOOKING for that perfect person, you do not create one, particularly not without their consent!

Starting the creation of a True Emotion Mirror bond (or a True Emotion Mirror bond, rather) is a MUTUAL CHOICE, but a choice, that Mature True Emotion Mirrors have made so long ago, that it is no longer a choice to fall in love with this person, but it simply IS. This choice also has to be MUTUAL, it cannot be made on behalf of the other person, like so many of the people I speak to seem to think it means.

So when I theorize that True Emotion Mirrors or True Emotion Mirrors (a type of a True Emotion Mirror) are “created”, I do not, by any means, mean that you can take ANY person and turn them into your True Emotion Mirror just like that. What it means is that the POTENTIAL is there, and then, you explore that potential and if your energies match NEAR 100%, you can develop this connection further so you’ll become True Emotion Mirrors , and match those energies a 100%. True Emotion Mirrors are made out of Potential TMS, who make a mutual choice to allow love take over, and to allow their connection to grow into full maturity, completely surrendering themselves to this love and the eternal bond that follows. It is more than a life-long connection, there is no “until death do us part” the connection remains potentially forever. (“A forever” is a long time, though, and it would be naive to think that as a very young species of humans we could know what the eternal future holds for us.)

The fact that I, for instance, seem to have this ability of “turning any guy into my True Emotion Mirror”, like my spirit following thinks I can, is an illusion. I HAVE a lot of potential, interrupted, and growing state True Emotion Mirrors , because I am a very old soul, I’ve always been either polyamorous or polyandrous, and I’ve had time to become a person who can match a lot of those needs that men have, without blinking, I can understand men, and I can open them up in spirit quite easily, and match who I am with them. Furthermore, I am a deeply submissive (the Young Soul*) lover, which means that I can adapt to near any man if I choose to allow them to alter me, but the men who I choose to adapt to are pretty much cut from the same wood, which means that I have a certain type that I can easily connect with and expand that bond with, should we both be so inclined. If this process keeps going without either one of us stopping it, a True Emotion Mirror bond is created; we both (all) need to learn to grow to match each other’s needs 100%. Some men who I have a connection to answer a certain role in my life, and they are largely work-in-progress connections that I would label as either Potential True Emotion Mirrors or Growing State True Emotion Mirrors . Even though I have more Mature State True Emotion Mirrors than most people would feel comfortable with, these connections are rare, and I’ve only met 2 Mature State True Emotion Mirrors in my lifetime face-to-face, although I am aware of the existence of several more.

The way the bond develops is through a MUTUAL wish to stay together. This wish, in terms of True Emotion Mirrors , is more than a decision to stay together (as some kind of a favor to the other, for instance); it is a decision that is based on mutual enjoyment of each other’s company. If one of the partners is in this relationship half-heartedly, let alone against their own will, the True Emotion Mirror bond WILL NOT FORM, but this is the beginning of an Spausal Spirit Mirror bond, as in a Spousal Spirit Mirror, which is, essentially, as far as soulmates go, a non-connection; a contrived, unnatural, and forced connection, nothing to write home about in other words as far as satisfaction, love, and connection goes, it can be OK, even good, but it will NEVER be at the level of a True Emotion Mirror bond because it was born in a state where only one partner wanted it, and the other compromised and decided to settle or was forced to accept this connection through an arranged marriage or similar.

A Spousal Spirit Mirror MAY turn into a True Emotion Mirror in time, but this is not an accidental thing or a random thing that you should wait around for like winning the lottery, but the Trail Companions* MAY, in some cases, find enough mutual things that they eventually merge together, but this absolutely requires neither one of them has existing True Emotion Mirror connections, or that the other one is compatible with the other one’s True Emotion Mirrors as well, or wishes to change into the kind of person who does. Note: WISHES TO. You cannot make someone wish this kind of thing, because these decisions affect lifetimes to come, this is not a one-lifetime thing but the change will carry on potentially forever, therefore every person who is subjected to brainwashing or manipulation in the name of love, WILL protect their core that is sacred to themselves and their True Emotion Mirrors who will forever protect each other’s authentic core from alterations and manipulations from all outsiders.

Having said all that, I would never ever suggest simple Spousal Personality Mirrors to hang onto each other in the hopes that they’ll one day magically turn into True Emotion Mirrors , but I am simply mentioning that as a THEORETICAL possibility that this MAY happen, as in, if it HAS HAPPENED, don’t discount the possibility simply because my theory says Trail Companions* don’t turn into True Emotion Mirrors , although I would be willing to bet that such an occurrence happens once in a million years or less to anyone in this world – theoretical possibility, practical anomaly, and most often these changes happen ONLY to very young souls who are very undefined and underdeveloped in their personalities, who still have A LOT OF flexibility in their personalities and who are more than willing to alter themselves due to them NOT having a True Emotion Mirror who they need to be loyal to through their existing bond yet. In other words, if you CAN make a Trail Companion* into a True Emotion Mirror, you are already talking of a milder, lesser connection than the real deal, so don’t bank on it, and don’t try to contrive it into being for the sake of your ego and only to fit into the True Emotion Mirror circles, because that simply won’t work out too well for you on any level of the plan, least of all for your love life. The other reason why I keep even mentioning this possibility, is because I do not want anyone to think that they have to keep looking for that lightning bolt -love to happen, because it is simply a fact that not all people will ever experience it, simply because they HAVE NOT CREATED a True Emotion Mirror bond in a previous lifetime, but have repeatedly chosen a Trail Companion* bond. The choice is yours to make (given that the other partner is willing to remain in that relationship, even in spirit counts) but the possibility is there if you both feel the deep need to stay together, do so, and don’t separate on the account of some soulmate theory, right? That is why I am mentioning this to you. However, if you yearn for that lightning love, then you need to accept that Trail Companions* will not turn into lightning love, they simply DO  NOT. If you want to fall truly in love with someone, at the first sight, you will need keep looking for that one person who will knock your socks off at the first glance, and not insist on having a love at first sight -love happen with someone you’ve known for years – that doesn’t even make sense! (Do not fear to lose an already acquired asset. It is not romantic to keep one hand on one branch before taking a leap for another.)

Even True Emotion Mirrors CAN change into someone so different that they will LOSE the connection to each other or be temporarily altered to such form that they are no longer compatible to each other. We are talking a nuance of a difference that can turn these people away from each other. The True Emotion Mirror connection is The Most Fragile connection of them all, but also the strongest one, as once the pair reaches the MATURE state, it is near impossible for them to change in such a way that they would turn away from each other for any reason, but the Uncharted, Growing, and Interrupted states are NOTHING but unreliable in terms of continuity… But they are exciting and tempting to keep growing. Whenever you sense a reluctance in the other partner, it is best to take a step back rather than keep forcing it – that may cause more damage to the relationship than it will do good to it, should go without saying. Forcing things is never a good approach, particularly in the matters of love (or friendship).

If you are unsure about who your True Emotion Mirror is, it is more than likely you don’t have one. Even if you feel sure of it, it maybe that they do not return those feelings. There is also tons of reasons why they would tell you they are not in love with you, even though they are, and some of these reasons are as romantic as they come (You’re better off without me, you don’t HAVE TO love me) but sometimes the bond is not real, and one of you is “under a spell”. If you have a telepathic connection to this person, that is the most reliable source of information, but that doesn’t mean the (wo)man on the ground knows anything of the details of this conversation. You can rely on the spirit information MORE than what the physical person says to you, but even then there is a chance of a psychic prank that is real, particularly if you tend to have a bit over-blown ego and self-confidence that others regard to be fake and in need of adjustment.

None of this is simple, but ONE THING you can count on: True Emotion Mirrors LOVE each other, fully, completely, the way that they are. IF that is not the case, and the other one doesn’t want you, the connection is not a real one, but you’ll have to let go and find your actual True Emotion Mirror elsewhere. Everyone has at least Uncharted True Emotion Mirrors , even though you wouldn’t have a Growing, or Mature state True Emotion Mirrors out there, but the Young Soul* may  not be ready for a True Emotion Mirror bond which requires a very well-developed personality, but the good news is that the Young Soul* rarely WANT a True Emotion Mirror, but find the Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* -mode a lot more appealing. The bad news is, that people who DO have a True Emotion Mirror, do not want an Adjusting one, but the people who want an Adjusting one, tend to beg for the existing True Emotion Mirrors for attention and love, which is not going to carry much fruit. The spiritual reason for this is similar to a young child insisting on playing with the older children because they will learn things faster when they play with older kids. Doesn’t mean the old kids are at all inclined to play with the youngins even though they sometimes do agree to it, at least temporarily.

For a runner… You may want to try and treat this person as your equal if they beg for your attention and love, and show them your full standards. “This is what I want from a girlfriend/boyfriend, if you want to be this, these are my expectations.” Essentially, you’ll be asking a child to fill the shoes of an adult, and eventually, they will find they do not measure up, but… That is your call to make and can be regarded abuse in some forms… As your goal, in this case, would be to make them feel insufficient and lacking in order to make them accept realities that they simply aren’t enough for you as is the case. (If you go through with something like this, I suggest making a legal document 50 Shades of Gray style on it would be advisable, in which you make them sign a statement that says they’ve insisted on a relationship that you do not want, but will agree to given that this person knows that you will ask them to do things they do not know how to perform or understand the emotional meaning of etc. Extreme situation of course.)

The moral of the story is that you cannot force people into falling in love with you, no matter how well you know these theories, you cannot use the to manipulate others. I am not developing a love potion, I am trying to explain how the spiritual, emotional, and psychological reality works in terms of love relationships.

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