Why would someone cut contact with their family or former friends?

I will have to, again refer to the difference in thinking between the Ravens* thinkers and the Young Soul* thinkers. When the Young Soul*ality relaxes with their loved ones, they tend to be a little argumentative and aggressive. Kind of like dogs playing. The Ravens* thinkers are not. When a Ravens* thinker tries to raise issues with the Young Soul*, the Young Soul* tends to not really “hear” them. They hear, but they’re not listening. They either try to find the joke between the lines, or they’re trying to find a hidden love-note in there: “How does this mean she/he loves me?” They tend not to always be cued in on the words spoken, which frustrates the Ravens* person to no end.

Eventually, the Ravens* person will cut contact because communication with the Young Soul* person is completely futile. If a person won’t understand your words with the common or usual meaning of the word, why keep talking? It is such a waste of time. Therefore, for the sake of their own sanity, the Ravens* person may walk away from the relationship, no matter how close relatives or good friends they once were.

A Young Soul* thinker may cut contact because they found someone more admirable to look up to. They simply replaced their former relationship with a new one. The Ravens* rarely think this way. The Ravens* evaluate each relationship with a “am I happier alone than communicating with this person,” and if the answer is yes, they’ll cut contact. That doesn’t mean they want to be alone forever; they just prefer being alone to being around this particular person they cut contact with. The Young Soul* tend to look for friendships “above them”, whereas the Ravens* are desperate to find EQUAL friends. Therefore, after they get tired of being in an inequal relationship with someone because being the constant teacher or the free councilor is a tough job, so they cut the relationship looking for someone who could give something back, too.

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