Why would someone cut contact with their family or former friends?

I will have to, again refer to the difference in thinking between the Cat Thinkers thinkers and the Dog Thinker thinkers. When the Dog Thinkerality relaxes with their loved ones, they tend to be a little argumentative and aggressive. Kind of like dogs playing. The Cat Thinkers thinkers are not. When a Cat Thinkers thinker tries to raise issues with the Dog Thinker, the Dog Thinker tends to not really “hear” them. They hear, but they’re not listening. They either try to find the joke between the lines, or they’re trying to find a hidden love-note in there: “How does this mean she/he loves me?” They tend not to always be cued in on the words spoken, which frustrates the Cat Thinkers person to no end.

Eventually, the Cat Thinkers person will cut contact because communication with the Dog Thinker person is completely futile. If a person won’t understand your words with the common or usual meaning of the word, why keep talking? It is such a waste of time. Therefore, for the sake of their own sanity, the Cat Thinkers person may walk away from the relationship, no matter how close relatives or good friends they once were.

A the Dog Thinker thinker may cut contact because they found someone more admirable to look up to. They simply replaced their former relationship with a new one. The Cat Thinkers rarely think this way. The Cat Thinkers evaluate each relationship with a “am I happier alone than communicating with this person,” and if the answer is yes, they’ll cut contact. That doesn’t mean they want to be alone forever; they just prefer being alone to being around this particular person they cut contact with. The Dog Thinker tend to look for friendships “above them”, whereas the Cat Thinkers are desperate to find EQUAL friends. Therefore, after they get tired of being in an inequal relationship with someone because being the constant teacher or the free councilor is a tough job, so they cut the relationship looking for someone who could give something back, too.

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