Why you might have to let go of your True Emotion Mirror (for a while).

Imagine you have a karmic soulmate who knows there are certain people in this world you will never let go of. If they ever get on your bad side, they can then ally with that person or whatever else is important to you to practice their way back into your life. For as long as you hold onto something or someone specific, that person can weasel their way back into your life no matter how hard you try to keep them out.

The fact is, whatever is yours, True Emotion Mirror or otherwise, they are yours whether you hold onto them or not. But you can decide that you won’t take them with negative attachments; you will not accept the gift if it comes with a load of crap attached. This way, the load of crap has to go away, as it has no host to attach to.

Your karmic soulmates love something about you (but not necessarily what or how you’d want them to) and they want to use the things that are important to you to force their way into your life sometimes. Even if it’s a remote chance; for as long as they even imagine they can help you or pretend to help you get what you want, they have a way in. You know how many times you’ve heard someone say: “As soon as I gave up… It happened,” or “As soon as I stopped looking, I met them?”

When you think of your True Emotion Mirror as the handle that opens a door to your life, you realize that if they keep emotionally siding with your karmic soulmate, for instance, you have to let them go… For a while. Let them get detached into your karmic soulmate’s hand and lose the grip off that door… Until your karmic soulmate realizes they can’t use this person to get to you and they will lose their interest in that person. Now, they’re free to move a little closer to you again. Your KS will possibly reattach, but if they do, you let go again. They have to learn that person, or nothing else you want is usable as a door handle.

This is easy enough if you’re polygamous, but may be very, very difficult thing to trust if you are monogamous or associate yourself as such. If your idea of romance is that it’s this person or nobody at all… You should at least pretend to look for other options, especially where your karmic soulmate can see you. If you’ve decided that some person is a bad influence on your life, you don’t want them to know what or who you want in the world.

If you’re poly, the good news is that not all of your True Emotion Mirrors are usable for this purpose, more than likely. The most compassionate ones are easily manipulated, however. So sometimes, you need to put your foot down and say, “It’s either them or me; if you want to keep listening to them, I’m out.” “I don’t care what they’ve promised you; I know they’re not trustworthy, and I’m going to call it; for as long as you listen to them, we won’t be together.”

For as long as you’re not together with your True Emotion Mirrors or hold onto a financial goal or a business plan, these parasite souls have something to focus on. Learn to pivot and divert their attention if needed.

But in spirit, decide you don’t want the crap attached to your dreams; you want what you want purely the way you want it, with no attachments or conditions. It’s OK. That way, the spirit has to give it to you in that way. Sounds boring? Try to find a form of positive friction to replace the drama. You know… Like a type of emotional masturbation. 😉

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) should come to you without the crap connected.

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