Women who are attracted to cheating men
There is absolutely nothing wrong with women who are attracted to cheating men. They respond to their natural polygynous leaning, which monogamous societies suppress. There is also nothing wrong with a cheating man, nothing at all, just the culture we live in has made him a pariah.
That is not to say that all women will accept cheating as a natural part of a relationship, not at all, because we are not ALL attracted to cheating, but some of us are and have every right to be.
Here’s the logic.
A man isn’t attractive to polygynous women if his eye doesn’t wander.
Polygynous women find faithful men too easy and boring to be genuinely interested in. They feel they’re doormats. Simps. They don’t like loyalty but prefer men who are challenging to control and difficult to keep for themselves. They want to feel the conquest of taming a cheating man or even the thrill of sharing him with other women she finds attractive somehow.
To a polygynist woman, another woman in the picture is sexy, exciting, a challenge, and ideally, she should make the other women an official, permanent fixture in their relationship.
Monogamy is an artificial idea.
Monogamy is a popularized idea that equates women for things to be distributed among deserving men. However, it is not a natural way of being for most of us. Whether polyandrous, polygynandrous, or polygynous, most people don’t truly fit into monogamy. We also want commitment; we TRULY wish to commitment; it’s just that monogamy is entirely arbitrary in human societies. It is an utterly structured form of creating relationships that, for most people, only work as a TEMPORARY state before the couple finds their other True Emotion Mirrors, who turn their monogamous bliss into a polygamous one.
Like everything else of this nature, when society enforces polygyny, it becomes toxic. When society forces polyandrous, polygynandrous, and monogamous women (who do exist) into polygyny, it would be hell on Earth for them.
While polygyny WORKS for polygynous people, it is hell on Earth for everybody else… The same way as any other alternative on the list – monogamy the least – is why it has been accepted as the dissatisfying but acceptable default.
Going for that polygynous marital bliss
Although there are many ways to skin a cat, polygyny can be quite the marital bliss for those it suits. Women who love the company of other women, their sister-wives will always be there. Although polygamy has gotten a terrible reputation due to the male-dominant form of polygyny, a modern version should be very much a female-led choice, at least by default. Some women like the male-dominant polygyny, and who am I to judge?
A polygynous woman is more than likely to have a very close friend with whom she would LOVE to share a husband. Polygynous women also tend to be very hands-on with men because they know “if you don’t jump on him now, someone else will,” and they also WANT a popular man, as he will be drawing other women into his vortex. Fighting over a man can be sexy, but staying monogamously married to a faithful man will bore a polygynist woman to tears.
Polygynous marriage should be feminine joy.
Imagine this: You have ten women tending to 3 children. Their husband is either working or handing things around the house as a protective presence at all times, maybe. Five of the ten women work outside the home, and absolutely none of them worry about the quality of the daycare. The women will always have someone they can lean on, and they mutually worship their husband, who they all wish to make feel like the luckiest man on Earth.
When the husband gets laid is entirely up to his wives, and he will enjoy a surprise every night.
Love shouldn’t be about numbers, not one, two, or ten, but as many as it takes to create marital bliss for all involved.
I am a polyandrist, so I don’t know, but it sounds OK enough to me, hey? Please adjust the details to your liking until you weep over your joyful dreams.
Cheating isn’t, obviously, ideal for all.
Polygamy isn’t about cheating, of course, but the fact some women get turned on by her cheating husband is a sign of polygynous leanings. A polygynous woman doesn’t want her husband to leave her if he’s been unfaithful; she wants him to bring her lover home, at least presuming he has picked a good one.
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