You are not too young to know true love

This is the fist thing I want you to know. A 6-year old is more likely to know true love than a 40-year old is. You know yourself better at 17 than you know yourself at 40, just that you don’t have quite the experience yet, but not all experience is beneficial your self-actualisation. Most of our “experience” consists of rumours and false ideas of true love that is passed on from person to person as truth. Instinct, intuition, heart, love; those are the things you can trust; you can trust “simple” carnal lust more than you can trust your cognition. Should everyone function from their intuition and instinct, the world would be a much happier, much easier place to live in. But we don’t. That’s why things get complicated, especially in love.

Our culture teaches a lot of things to us about love and relationships and even ourselves which aren’t true. One of the most horrifying things I’ve heard about parenting these days was that this well-meaning, loving father told his daughter that since she had given a purity pledge, she should practise anal sex instead of vaginal sex until she’d get married. What kind of a world we live in where fathers advice their daughters to take it up the bum in order to stay pure?! Nothing wrong with anal of course, but there is something wrong with that bit of advice don’t you think?

The sad thing is that we lose our purity and innocence well before we even have sex for the first time. This has been the case for decades, if not centuries, the first time some adult teaches a child about the dangers of sex and love making us suspicious and cynical before we have anything to be cynical about. This doesn’t do anything but pretty much guarantee we won’t find true love easily, if all we do is look at each other wondering what your true motivations are, and at the end of the day we all just want to find pure, true love combined with mind-blowing sex. (The latter depends on the former… as dumb as it sounds, but love doesn’t take years to mature, necessarily, it can happen in an instant, and if the sex is mind-blowing, the love is in there somewhere.)

What true love is is the ability to connect on all levels to a person. Whatever you want in life, they want it, too, and what ever you want them to be for you, they are, without pressure, without a need to prove their love for you, automatically, because that is who and what they are. Any pressure to be something or do something is not about true love, but your true love will follow your thought without difficulty, hanging onto every word you say, and lapping you up in hunger for more. I have a feeling I need to put this in: If you are a dominant male, you’ll find your true love when you can make her do the things you want without saying a word, without laying a finger on her… More or less, at least! If you have to force someone to it, that is not true love. (Frustration and anger are not signs of a good dom-sub-couple, unless it’s frustration over not being able to express the depth of one’s emotions sufficiently enough.)

You can’t make just anyone into a true lover, but it exists. Your soul will know the one you seek for, and you know the instant your eyes meet that this is her, this is him. Instinctively you will know what to do, what to say; unless you stop yourself out of loyalty to someone else, fear that you might make a fool out of yourself, fear of getting hurt down the line – the list is endless. If your self-confidence isn’t at the level it should be, you can run out of courage before you make it to hearing distance – and this is so normal it happens to the best of them! No matter if you’re an A-list celebrity with women at your feet, once you look into the eyes of your True Emotion Mirror, all of the sudden you’re back at Yonkers or wherever your parents had the good wisdom to raise you and the words escape you… At least momentarily. You can prepare for this by making sure your self-confidence comes from within, not from things you do, things you own, the way you pose or the way you talk tough. To know that you are good enough to the person you’d give your life for – that is the kind of self confidence you don’t buy from a fashion store. That confidence is earned and is real. The number one factor in True Emotion Mirror splits is the male thinking that he is simply not good enough to love someone like their True Mirror is. He runs to save her the heart ache of being stuck with a moron such as him. What she needs to do is to convince this said moron that she does feel for him every bit of that love that he thinks he doesn’t deserve… Should she be brave enough… Which, most likely she won’t be – unless we, the Experienced, get the word out. 🙂

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